Spinoff to Becki's fake boobs post....

OK only sorta a spin-off....a very loose spin off....and its a S-E-X question so if you're faint of heart or a virgin or asexual or whatever I don't mean to offend............



..........how often, if ever, do you have to fake the big O with FH? Not in a bad way but some times its just not happening for me (its not bad i'm just not quite getting *there*) and I dont want him to feel bad so I...ya know...pretend a bit....



anyone?

i pretend sometimes

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Posted by Clover23

i pretend sometimes

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solidarity sista!

NEVERRRRRRR!!! Mine works hard to always make it happen. And when I cant, well honestly .. I never cant (maybe sometimes if im SUPER drunk)

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Posted by MerSaysEh

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Posted by Clover23

i pretend sometimes

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solidarity sista!

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that's the first time i've ever admitted it, you inspired me!

A couple of times he thought I was 'arriving', but I wasn't and I didn't say anything to him. Does that count??

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Posted by StaceyWill

A couple of times he thought I was 'arriving', but I wasn't and I didn't say anything to him. Does that count??

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it does to me! haha

and Elizabeth - its good to be able to share with the girls. I don't think there's anything wrong with it, its much harder for women than men! I still enjoy it all the time but occasionally it just doesnt quite get there and thats ok!

I don't fake.

I can't O unless all attention is on me and nothing else is going on. It's a very testy area for me.

In fact, I didn't even have an O until I was 19 years old... and I never had an O in the presence of anyone else until FH.

So... that's probably why I'm marrying him.

LOL juuuuuuust kiddin'.

But he knows how difficult it is for me. Why bother spending the effort to fake.

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Posted by weddingbees

I don't fake.

I can't O unless all attention is on me and nothing else is going on. It's a very testy area for me.

In fact, I didn't even have an O until I was 19 years old... and I never had an O in the presence of anyone else until FH.

So... that's probably why I'm marrying him.

LOL juuuuuuust kiddin'.

But he knows how difficult it is for me. Why bother spending the effort to fake.

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so you just don't and he's cool with it and thats that? thats so simbiotic!

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Posted by weddingbees

I don't fake.

I can't O unless all attention is on me and nothing else is going on. It's a very testy area for me.

In fact, I didn't even have an O until I was 19 years old... and I never had an O in the presence of anyone else until FH.

So... that's probably why I'm marrying him.

LOL juuuuuuust kiddin'.

But he knows how difficult it is for me. Why bother spending the effort to fake.

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Same for me... i never had one until i met Shaun... i was 20

no need to pretend
if anything i try not to make sound
if he heres me getting ready to finish he will exlplode before im done. lol

I never. if it aint happening I just say 'it aint happening'.
I really DONT care about hurting his feelings. is that mean?

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Posted by regy_k

I never. if it aint happening I just say 'it aint happening'.
I really DONT care about hurting his feelings. is that mean?

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yes. yes it is. you are cruel regy!

no no, just my FH tries hard haha and I was more experienced than him when we started dating and he was always nervous and i guess it just became habit!

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Posted by regy_k

I never. if it aint happening I just say 'it aint happening'.
I really DONT care about hurting his feelings. is that mean?

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i've done the same thing Reg... sometiems i dont even let him try cause i can feel its not gonna happen ...

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Posted by regy_k

I never. if it aint happening I just say 'it aint happening'.
I really DONT care about hurting his feelings. is that mean?

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Not mean at all....I am the same way!! Although that rarely happens...he tries very hard! OH....and BTW....He was the first person to be able to get me there, and I was married before! I was 31 years old

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Posted by MerSaysEh

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Posted by weddingbees

I don't fake.

I can't O unless all attention is on me and nothing else is going on. It's a very testy area for me.

In fact, I didn't even have an O until I was 19 years old... and I never had an O in the presence of anyone else until FH.

So... that's probably why I'm marrying him.

LOL juuuuuuust kiddin'.

But he knows how difficult it is for me. Why bother spending the effort to fake.

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so you just don't and he's cool with it and thats that? thats so simbiotic!

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Yeah, sometimes he has issues catching the O-train too so we understand. Those nether-regions are touchy!

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Posted by MerSaysEh

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Posted by regy_k

I never. if it aint happening I just say 'it aint happening'.
I really DONT care about hurting his feelings. is that mean?

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yes. yes it is. you are cruel regy!

no no, just my FH tries hard haha and I was more experienced than him when we started dating and he was always nervous and i guess it just became habit!

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I think I said waaaaaay meaner things to FH so when I say that its not even that big of a deal.
I never felt the need to fake, not to hurt anyone's feelings I just dont see the point. if its happening - great! if it doesnt - so what? there is always next time, AND its still awesome

I guess I am just of the school of thought - even bad sex is better than no sex LOL

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Posted by regy_k

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Posted by MerSaysEh

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Posted by regy_k

I never. if it aint happening I just say 'it aint happening'.
I really DONT care about hurting his feelings. is that mean?

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yes. yes it is. you are cruel regy!

no no, just my FH tries hard haha and I was more experienced than him when we started dating and he was always nervous and i guess it just became habit!

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I think I said waaaaaay meaner things to FH so when I say that its not even that big of a deal.
I never felt the need to fake, not to hurt anyone's feelings I just dont see the point. if its happening - great! if it doesnt - so what? there is always next time, AND its still awesome

I guess I am just of the school of thought - even bad sex is better than no sex LOL

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haha thats the thing - i agree with you but i'm so dug into the way i do it now that i think that may be how i do it forever. or until the day 10 years from now when i say 'oh btw babe half the time i dont finish but its cool i still have fun!'

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Posted by Rosalind_75

no need to pretend
if anything i try not to make sound
if he heres me getting ready to finish he will exlplode before im done. lol

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