Do you think it's weird that jim NEVER wants to know my numbers? We have had a BRIEF conversation about our lists, he told me his # but said under no uncertain terms did he ever want to know mine. I have always found this weird thoughts?
SuzBride
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Re: Spinoff to Bigger How
Posted by JXNOscar
Do you think it's weird that jim NEVER wants to know my numbers? We have had a BRIEF conversation about our lists, he told me his # but said under no uncertain terms did he ever want to know mine. I have always found this weird thoughts?
good for him. He probably knows that if your number is high it will irk him forever and he won't be able to get it out of his mind. He has more willpower than me!
He is a smart, smart man.
superkat
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Re: Spinoff to Bigger How
Posted by SuzBride
Posted by JXNOscar
Do you think it's weird that jim NEVER wants to know my numbers? We have had a BRIEF conversation about our lists, he told me his # but said under no uncertain terms did he ever want to know mine. I have always found this weird thoughts?
good for him. He probably knows that if your number is high it will irk him forever and he won't be able to get it out of his mind. He has more willpower than me!
He is a smart, smart man.
I agree with Suz. I think he KNOWS it would bother him either way so if he doesn't know, it can't bother him.
greenfreak
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I see that as an ego thing. DH didn't want to know at first, he just wanted to pretend there was no one before him.
But eventually, we talked about it. Not the number so much, but the individual experiences. I had some bad relationships that tied into family problems and shaped who I am today. So those were kind of important.
But the specifics of the flings? He doesn't want to know and I'm not particularly enamored on telling him.
