spinoff to Lisa's overwhelmed post...

OMG since the new year hit ive been SO OVERWHELMED not w/my wedding to do list, but just in general...

in 4 1/2 months ill be getting married and moving out of my parents house!!!!

we all realize how short 4 1/2 months is right??????????? and its gonna FLY cuz in the meantime ill be student teaching and working and applying for jobs (hopefully lol) and then ill be leaving my parents

i just cant even take it....all i can thnk about lately is when i was little, etc...i cry at my desk at work like every day!!

is this what they say 'cold feet' about??

luckily FH totally understands it, he doesnt get mad at me for being upset....

im an only child, and BEST FRIENDS with my mother, and im up my parents @$$e$ all the time, i just cant even wrap my head around whats going to be in 4 months.....

anyone else feeling like this or am i a big baby?

OMG - i felt this way at xmas!!!!

we always have xmas at my parents house with about 35-40 people. This year, as my mom and I woke up at the azz crack of dawn to prepare, I was crying!!! I knew that next xmas, she would be doing this alone. I mean yea, I can come over and help, but its not the same as waking up in your parents house, especially xmas morning!!!!

I am so excited to get married but so weirded out that I won't be waking up at home and going to bed in my room!!!! It is a very strange feeling!

you aren't alone hun!!

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Posted by GiannisWifey

OMG - i felt this way at xmas!!!!

we always have xmas at my parents house with about 35-40 people. This year, as my mom and I woke up at the azz crack of dawn to prepare, I was crying!!! I knew that next xmas, she would be doing this alone. I mean yea, I can come over and help, but its not the same as waking up in your parents house, especially xmas morning!!!!

I am so excited to get married but so weirded out that I won't be waking up at home and going to bed in my room!!!! It is a very strange feeling!

you aren't alone hun!!

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GOOD!!! i have been wondering if im mature enough for this whole marriage thing if im feeling like this!!!! LOL

You're definitely not alone!!

I keep stressing about everything leading up to the wedding, like all the steps that need to be taken! It's those things that are making me nuts!

My friend and I rent an apartment from FH and FH and I always thought we'd eventually move in together to that apt and my friend would find a cheaper one bedroom. Now she's saying how she's going to stay!

FH's family has apartments in Astoria, but I said absolutely NOT! A- it's too close to my job, I think I'd cry and B-some of the other tenants are dirty and OBNOXIOUS. No thanks. Oh yeah and C-It's too far from my parents! I'm really close with them and I'm only a mile away right now and I don't really want to be more than 3-5 mils from them!

UGH!

There are so many other things too...

So, yeah, you're sooooo not alone!

You are not alone!!!!!

I am an only child too, my mom is my best friend and I love my house!!! I don't want to move out at all and that has been a problem because now that we are getting close we have to start looking for something, it's depressing

Don't get me wrong, I love FH and want to live with him but I guess we're creatures of habit and when your comfortable you don't want to change!!!

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Posted by nell1279

You are not alone!!!!!

I am an only child too, my mom is my best friend and I love my house!!! I don't want to move out at all and that has been a problem because now that we are getting close we have to start looking for something, it's depressing

Don't get me wrong, I love FH and want to live with him but I guess we're creatures of habit and when your comfortable you don't want to change!!!

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YES exactly!!

i jus had another crying fit over everything....i jus wanna get in the bathtub and relax...not go to work n do mindless BS til 5pm then be stressed about it all over again!!!!! GRRRRRRRRRR im not having a good day today