Spinoff to my last poll...

I would be slightly upset, only because its a cultural thing for me. For Asian weddings, the color red is usually reserved for the bride, so it would be the equivalent of my FMIL wearing all white to my wedding!

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Posted by nicopico13

haha when you put it that way!!! Yeah I would probably be a little annoyed and take it a little 'dig' from her.

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lol...thanks for the honesty
I want to get an outsiders perspective...see how guest might react to the dress.
my mom would never do it as a 'dig' though...she loves my FSIL and couldn't be happier. She just likes the dress and has always like red. I think at one point her entire wordrobe consisted of black, white and red only .

Honestly I don't see a big deal. As long as no one is where white at my wedding I wouldnt care about any other colors.

If your FSIL has a problem with it maybe she can get the dress for your wedding.