While going through that post I had a thought - and please answer truthfully - are any of the ladies having a Nuptial mass also living with their FH's? I don't want to start anything I just think that because some of us are not having a mass or couldn't have a mass does not mean we're not good Catholics. Just like I don't believe pre-marital sex, bc , or living with someone before marriage makes you a bad Catholic.
RedHead
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I live with my FH I am having a ceremony only because of time constraints
i would have a mass if i had more time
jennelishal
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I live with FH and would have had a mass if I had the time.
NYCHICK
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I live with FH and we are not having a mass cause it is just unnecesary to us...........
JimmysBride
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Well from my post you know that I am still trying to decide whether or not to have a full mass. I do not live with my FH (yes, partially for moral reasons) but if I did, I would still consider the full Mass option. I do not think that I am in a position to JUDGE anyone else on whether or not they are a 'good' Catholic or a 'bad' Catholic.
I live with FH and we are just having the ceremony. Not because of the living situation but because we arent religious at all, and our families dont really care.
WinterBride2005
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Both FH and I live at home with our parent's.
Kelly9904
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I dont live with my FH but my friends did before hand and they had a full mass.
Julestrd
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I live with my FH and we are having a full mass.
kaangel217
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I don't live with Fh. We weren't having a mass but when we found out that our Fg ( my niece) could make her communion at our church during our ceremony we choose to have a mass. ( The FG thing is a long story)
Maribelle7777
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Yes I am. I wouldn't have it any other way. Besides the Church would not do just the Ceremony of Marriage w/o the Liturgy of the Eucharist.
And my priest knows we live togehter. I think he's just going with the flow!
Donna
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Thanks for answering. I guess I should have answered, FH and I don't live together.
treilly13
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I live with FH (and his mother) and we are having a full mass.
tourist
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Posted by kaangel217
I don't live with Fh. We weren't having a mass but when we found out that our Fg ( my niece) could make her communion at our church during our ceremony we choose to have a mass. ( The FG thing is a long story)
Just curious- how long is your wedding going to be with all tht going on?
halloweenbride04
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Posted by Julestrd
I live with my FH and we are having a full mass.
Us too....
May2004
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Posted by WinterBride2005
Both FH and I live at home with our parent's.
me too and we are having a full Mass.
Ladybug63
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Spitzergirl
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I recently starting living with fh..
I could not decide if I wanted a mass or ceremony. I just chose the ceremony-because it is shorter. But, my mom wants the full mass....Uggggh....
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to say..My priest..does not want to give me the Mass..if I don't attend mass every sunday. I don't go that often..so I don't have a choice
kel2004
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My FH and I do not live together and we are having a mass.
Ang&Rich
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FH and I live together and church and priest know this since the mass envelopes are addressed to the both of us. Our priest didn't have a problem with our living together.
I want a mass but FH doesn't (he thinks it's to much time) but right now we have to wait to see if the church can accomodate a mass but they wouldn't prevent us from having one. We attend Sunday mass regularly so that's why I want the mass. Our living together in this day and age is irrelevant.
