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Spinoff - Were YOU a playa back in the day?
usuk2004 Posted: Nov 03, 2004 12:04 PM+
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Spinoff - Were YOU a playa back in the day?

I broke a few hearts
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MonkeyLuv Posted: Nov 03, 2004 12:08 PM+
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usuk2004 Posted: Nov 03, 2004 12:14 PM+
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Re: Spinoff - Were YOU a playa back in the day?


Posted by MonkeyLuv
I was more a spirit-breaker anyway....I've made every ex cry at some point.



Oh, you're bad I only turned one gay Yeah, the wife and kid are just a cover up, we all know what really happened to him
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MrsTC Posted: Nov 03, 2004 12:15 PM+
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Re: Spinoff - Were YOU a playa back in the day?

no.

i was a nerd.
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MonkeyLuv Posted: Nov 03, 2004 12:16 PM+
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FeliciaDA Posted: Nov 03, 2004 12:21 PM+
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Re: Spinoff - Were YOU a playa back in the day?


Posted by MonkeyLuv


Posted by usuk2004

Oh, you're bad I only turned one gay Yeah, the wife and kid are just a cover up, we all know what really happened to him




You win! I drove one to born-again-christianity and I told another 'it's not me, it's you.'





I was always a one man at a time woman up until my 30s, very relationship oriented. Then, after getting burned one to many times I had a year or two of deciding that being a female 'playa' was quite an enjoyable change of pace (if ya can't beat 'em, join 'em)

Needless to say, the vicious dating cycle wore me out in due course, and a few months after I swore off ALL men in general, DH dropped into my life
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usuk2004 Posted: Nov 03, 2004 12:24 PM+
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Re: Spinoff - Were YOU a playa back in the day?


Posted by FeliciaDA

Needless to say, the vicious dating cycle wore me out in due course, and a few months after I swore off ALL men in general, DH dropped into my life



Funny how that works, isn't it? When I met Seb, I had just made a brand new dating rule - I would not date anyone who lived outside the 212 area code...Well, he fit the mold for the first 2.5 years of our relationship, but look at me now!
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smilealways Posted: Nov 03, 2004 12:32 PM+
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Re: Spinoff - Were YOU a playa back in the day?

I definitely wasn't a player, but when I turned 18 I became a regular at the dance club on the Navy base, and I definitely kissed my fair share of guys there!
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MonkeyLuv Posted: Nov 03, 2004 12:34 PM+
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DMAG Posted: Nov 03, 2004 12:37 PM+
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Re: Spinoff - Were YOU a playa back in the day?

Yes and no....I've usually had a relationship of some sort going on. But there's been times where I was 'overwhelmed' so to say.

I can remember a few summers back in my mid to late twenties where it seemed like I was going out with a different girl every week. (The only time in my life I felt pretty studly.) I knew it would probably be the only time in my life I'd be able to do it and I took full advantage of it!

Have I broken some hearts? Yeah...sad to say so.
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myasmom Posted: Nov 03, 2004 12:41 PM+
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Re: Spinoff - Were YOU a playa back in the day?

OHHH most definitely I was a playa..I still have some playa traits in me to this day. I was not the sleep around player..I was the type that would take your boyfriend if you pissed me off playa. I also used my skills to get my way..lol..hmm polk audio speakers and top of the line viper alarm system for my car and a list of other stuff. But I am such a genuine person beleive it or not that many guys fell in love with me..they thought they were players too..but I was better..and yes..DH was a victim too lol. But Ihe was the sweetest and most sincere of them all..plus he likes the flirtatious side of me..because he gets a kick when guys hit on me.
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FeliciaDA Posted: Nov 03, 2004 12:54 PM+
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Re: Spinoff - Were YOU a playa back in the day?


Posted by DMAG
I can remember a few summers back in my mid to late twenties where it seemed like I was going out with a different girl every week. (The only time in my life I felt pretty studly.)

Have I broken some hearts? Yeah...sad to say so.



Don't let him fool ya .... he's still studly .. but now, he's allll mine

And for sure he HAS broken more than a few hearts.. i.e., the ex's who still would email him telling him they haven't gotten over him (once we were together).. and let's not forget the ex he STILL works, who I know hasn't quite gotten over him and would send her friends to his office to check out my pics and report back to her...

Ahh ... its the small price us wives have to pay when your husband is not only studly, but one of the 'nice guys'
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DMAG Posted: Nov 03, 2004 12:57 PM+
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Re: Spinoff - Were YOU a playa back in the day?


Posted by FeliciaDA

.. and let's not forget the ex he STILL works,



to clarify...that's 'works WITH'. I'm not working anyone at this point except my wifey!

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FeliciaDA Posted: Nov 03, 2004 01:30 PM+
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Re: Spinoff - Were YOU a playa back in the day?


Posted by DMAG


Posted by FeliciaDA

.. and let's not forget the ex he STILL works,



to clarify...that's 'works WITH'. I'm not working anyone at this point except my wifey!




damn straight



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nferrandi Posted: Nov 03, 2004 01:45 PM+
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Re: Spinoff - Were YOU a playa back in the day?

Definitely! I had tons of fun too. I never slept around, but my friends did call me the kissing bandit. I was known to juggle a few guys, but none of them were my 'boyfriend' so I could date whoever I wanted. It wasn't my fault that they were only dating me at the time.
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MuchInLuvMichi Posted: Nov 03, 2004 03:35 PM+
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Re: Spinoff - Were YOU a playa back in the day?

um i think i m being a playa right now at this point in my life lol..we have all heard the stories to prove it
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RVCBride Posted: Nov 03, 2004 05:49 PM+
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Re: Spinoff - Were YOU a playa back in the day?

I was always the heart breaker, never the heart breakee. That has it's good points and bad points. I never allowed myself to get 'played', but I wouldn't necessarily call myself a 'playa'. I did have some qualities in relationships, however, that would suggest otherwise.
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RedHead Posted: Nov 03, 2004 07:00 PM+
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Re: Spinoff - Were YOU a playa back in the day?

In my mid 20's
HELL YEAH

then got over it
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