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Posted by FDNYwife1029

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Posted by rosatemp

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Posted by FDNYwife1029

OMGGGG! since she said that i have kinda been freaking out!!!! I am so nervous! he made a comment yesterday at the limo company that i would need a bigger car for my poofy dress. My dress is mermaid & it's bigger on the bottom that your typical mermaid gown, but now i am thinking - is he expecting me in a ball gown.

I just want to WOW him ya know.... i want his to see me in my dress & take his breath away.... i want him to love my dress just as much as I do ... UGH! i hate this. what if he doesnt like it ?????????

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im sorry i didnt mean to say it to freak you or any of you out

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oh no hun, totally not your fault. just my mind getting the best of me .. along with a comment he made yest. i am just so nervous! i want him to love it!

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im sure no matter what your dress looks like he will love it!!

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Posted by PazzaRagazza

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Posted by rosatemp

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Posted by FDNYwife1029

OMGGGG! since she said that i have kinda been freaking out!!!! I am so nervous! he made a comment yesterday at the limo company that i would need a bigger car for my poofy dress. My dress is mermaid & it's bigger on the bottom that your typical mermaid gown, but now i am thinking - is he expecting me in a ball gown.

I just want to WOW him ya know.... i want his to see me in my dress & take his breath away.... i want him to love my dress just as much as I do ... UGH! i hate this. what if he doesnt like it ?????????

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im sorry i didnt mean to say it to freak you or any of you out

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lol you didnt the closer we get to the wedding the more irrational i get!!!

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dont feel bad lizzie i had doubts until i saw my dress friday..i wasnt sure either...then i put it on and i was in love again...its a big decision!!!! lol

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Posted by MarryingMyBFF1110

fh saw my exact dress on an episode of four weddings and his response was 'ehhhh'...im hoping he loves it when he sees me in it..bc I love it! lol

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omg really....im sure he will because everyone wears it differently

I lied and told FH my dress has a ton of red in it and he's all freaked out now

Honestly, I think FH will like my dress, but probably not as much as I do...I know he'll be complaining how poofy it is during our first dance

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Posted by FDNYwife1029

our fh's chose us to be their WIFE! even if our dresses were butt ugly i doubt they would even notice, LOL. they will be so caught up in everything else. of course they will think we look gorgeous!!!!!!!!

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lol very true

This is why we broke the rules and went shopping together. He actually picked it out!

I figured that it would look totally diffrent with the alterations, the veil, etc......so it wasnt a huge deal

Probably a month or so before the wedding, I had a huge freak out that he would hate my whole look. We would watch wedding shows every once in a while and I'd ask him what he thought of dresses and he liked a lot of different styles, totally different from what I chose also lol. I also questioned my DOJ, hair, make-up, etc. I told him I was worried about it and he assured me he'd love how I look no matter what and that I made the right choice.

Fast forward to the day of, and the first time he saw me...it was obvious what he thought, after he gasped and started crying after seeing me

No matter what dress we all choose, our future hubby's will love us because on that day, along with a very few other days in your lives, you will look the most beautiful to him.

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Posted by adelz

Probably a month or so before the wedding, I had a huge freak out that he would hate my whole look. We would watch wedding shows every once in a while and I'd ask him what he thought of dresses and he liked a lot of different styles, totally different from what I chose also lol. I also questioned my DOJ, hair, make-up, etc. I told him I was worried about it and he assured me he'd love how I look no matter what and that I made the right choice.

Fast forward to the day of, and the first time he saw me...it was obvious what he thought, after he gasped and started crying after seeing me

No matter what dress we all choose, our future hubby's will love us because on that day, along with a very few other days in your lives, you will look the most beautiful to him.

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Thanks for this! I was feeling the same this morning, started crying & everything. I am not a melt down kind of person. but I thought to myself OMG - what if he hates my look! but after thinking about it - there is no way that would happen.

this was a huge concern of mine...

i know jason loves when i dress in classy, understated clothing... nothing too poofy and not too much going on. so i tried on dresses that were styles that i knew he'd like (which i liked, too), but unfortunately, they just didn't flatter my body.

so i told him ahead of time that my dress poofs out at the bottom - just so he would get used to the idea... but i later learned his idea of 'poof' and my idea of 'poof' totally differ, and i think i ended up scaring him!!

but on our wedding day, he said that there would not have been any other dress in the world that he would have wanted to see me in. after my, 'really? you sure? are you just saying that??' i could tell from the look in his eyes that he meant what he said. :)

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Posted by Debbie2011

this was a huge concern of mine...

i know jason loves when i dress in classy, understated clothing... nothing too poofy and not too much going on. so i tried on dresses that were styles that i knew he'd like (which i liked, too), but unfortunately, they just didn't flatter my body.

so i told him ahead of time that my dress poofs out at the bottom - just so he would get used to the idea... but i later learned his idea of 'poof' and my idea of 'poof' totally differ, and i think i ended up scaring him!!

but on our wedding day, he said that there would not have been any other dress in the world that he would have wanted to see me in. after my, 'really? you sure? are you just saying that??' i could tell from the look in his eyes that he meant what he said. :)

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so sweet!!!!!!

im sorry this may sound horrible but i didnt think of that at all and until now never even thought about it

its my dress so all i was considered about is if i would like it