i just found out that after paying 700 for the church we have to tip the priest...how much are you tipping i have no clue!!!
charliesbride
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no idea...havent thought about it yet....
AMGBride2008
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I haven't thought about it yet either. But you only have to pay $700?!? We have to pay $750. It must be because we're getting married in 2008.
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I haven't thought about it yet either. But you only have to pay $700?!? We have to pay $750. It must be because we're getting married in 2008.
We're $725. One of my friends is paying $700 for St. Mary in East Islip only 3 months before me. How much extra do you tip the priest? Do you have to tip the organ player too?
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FOR GOODNESS SAKE!!!!THE MAN WORKS FOR GOD!!! Why in the WORLD should we have to tip them..... I thought that priests thought nothing of wealth.... HELLO- if we just had babies out of wedlock & stayed happily shacking up with our FH's then the priests would be telling us we're sinners & going to hell.... we all want to do the right thing & say our vows in front of God & our friends & familys- THEY SHOULD BE PAYING US!!!!
just a little vent.... I'm stressing about the expenses of a wedding.... padding the pockets of the priest was not something that occured to me!
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FOR GOODNESS SAKE!!!!THE MAN WORKS FOR GOD!!! Why in the WORLD should we have to tip them..... I thought that priests thought nothing of wealth.... HELLO- if we just had babies out of wedlock & stayed happily shacking up with our FH's then the priests would be telling us we're sinners & going to hell.... we all want to do the right thing & say our vows in front of God & our friends & familys- THEY SHOULD BE PAYING US!!!!
just a little vent.... I'm stressing about the expenses of a wedding.... padding the pockets of the priest was not something that occured to me!
hah! too funny but true!
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Posted by SoinLoveRwe2
FOR GOODNESS SAKE!!!!THE MAN WORKS FOR GOD!!! Why in the WORLD should we have to tip them..... I thought that priests thought nothing of wealth.... HELLO- if we just had babies out of wedlock & stayed happily shacking up with our FH's then the priests would be telling us we're sinners & going to hell.... we all want to do the right thing & say our vows in front of God & our friends & familys- THEY SHOULD BE PAYING US!!!!
just a little vent.... I'm stressing about the expenses of a wedding.... padding the pockets of the priest was not something that occured to me!
Here Here!
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omg you are so funny........
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It's my understanding you don't tip the priest (since they work for God).
You do tip the musicians and altar servers though!
ETA: I'm not a St. Patrick's of Bayshore bride though!
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yeah we're paying 700 thats way tooo much money for a ceremony!! my sister got married there too and she only payed 325!! yeah it was 9 yrs ago but still its crazy! i'm not tipping my priest!! haha ok thats a joke...since i ave too...but its still stupid ur paying too much as it is
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yeah we're paying 700 thats way tooo much money for a ceremony!! my sister got married there too and she only payed 325!! yeah it was 9 yrs ago but still its crazy! i'm not tipping my priest!! haha ok thats a joke...since i ave too...but its still stupid ur paying too much as it is
NO TIPPING PRIESTS!!!! I have had it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! f them ( sorry god)
Shellycakes123
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i thin you have to, it says required on the envelope
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SHELLY: hold on- they are REQUIRING that you tip!?!?!??! You tip for SERVICE!!!! It's not an automatic... that is why it is called GRATUITY, a way to express your gratitude- Shelly- you were a waitress- don't you agree?!?!?