starting to feel the pressure!!!!

any one else with me??

i have not been able to sleep for a few nights now.. im 1 week from DD's and i have SO MUCH to do, ran out of $ and am totally stressed out.

our moms are so excited and having such a GREAT time! but i feel like im a basket case! since i got home ive been doing nothing but crying but im so overwhelmed. I still have 32 days of school left which brings me to april and then less then 2 months to get ALL wedding things done!

i need a DOC but have no $$ for one!

please tell me im not alone

You're not alone. Just concentrate on school for now. If your mom's are so excited, why not give them jobs to do? Do you have anyone in your life that can take over wedding things for you right now?

Hang in there, it will all work out!

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Posted by dream426

You are so not alone. I feel the same way. I am pulling my hair out. I have no money and I still have so much to buy.

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yes im worried about the $$ but i work 5-6 days a week 4-6 hours a day, go to school m-f form 730am-3pm and then go right to work. i have no time to even make decisions. i thought i was so a head of the game.. im so not

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Posted by mathteach

You're not alone. Just concentrate on school for now. If your mom's are so excited, why not give them jobs to do? Do you have anyone in your life that can take over wedding things for you right now?

Hang in there, it will all work out!

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my mom and fmil are really great and im sure if i gave them things to do they would be more then willing to complete those tasks but its all DECISIONS not even just the act of fullfilling it ya know?

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Posted by Soon2BMrsD

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Posted by dream426

You are so not alone. I feel the same way. I am pulling my hair out. I have no money and I still have so much to buy.

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yes im worried about the $$ but i work 5-6 days a week 4-6 hours a day, go to school m-f form 730am-3pm and then go right to work. i have no time to even make decisions. i thought i was so a head of the game.. im so not

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I took off from school this semester and I am glad I did. I sub in a school district and it has been so slow especially with vacations that I haven't been subbing a lot so I am not bringing in a lot of money. FH is bring in all the money but it just isn't enough with everything we need. I have a lot of time to make decisions but I am so upset about not getting work that I don't want to make them. Its weird...haha I don't know if I make sense. I was getting so much subbing before christmas break and now hardly anything. I think all the teachers are waiting for the nice weather..haha

I start my dd's tomorrow, I half to admit that I am scared and excited all at the same time, like you I am very busy with work and have very little time, but I believe I put soo much into this that I am not going to let all the small details get to me, it all will work out. cause no matter what WE ARE GETTING MARRIED................

What if you set aside a night or two for wedding decisions a week. That way you won't feel like you have to deal with it everyday?

I can't help you out with $$ because I am B.A.B.

Broke-A**-B****c

you are so not alone! i am about 3 months from my wedding and i still have a 2 page, typed (in small font) list of things to do and no $. i had a full out panic attack this morning, like hyperventilating and the whole thing! lol! funny in retrospect i guess.

i hear that it will all fall into place, so let's have faith in that! :)

Your not alone! I have four months left and running out of money, behind on everything, and super stressed. I have no time to plan between school and work. You'll get through it and everything will work out. Don't worry, or at least that's what I keep telling myself! lol.

I am soooo with you!!! I cried at my desk at work today whgich is becoming a daily occurence. I'm just worried everything wont get done.

I'm not really stressing. My advice to you if you are is DON'T make a to do list. Sometimes that just makes things worse when you see everything you need to do! Just try and do one thing at a time.

I still have so much to do but I am so busy with work I don't really have time to think about it.

You are not alone. If I lived closer I'd be your DOC

You're not alone - FH and I still need a place to live and then we need to buy all of our furniture. On top of that, we have other wedding stuff to do.

We still have to get:

Invites (which we are ordering this Saturday)
wedding bands
HM
church programs
place cards
my shoes
A place to live
furniture

There is probably more but I can't think of anything else right now.

Plus, working, going to school, and planning a wedding is not the easiest thing!

girls all i can say is THANK YOU!!! you girls always know how to make me feel better.

i was flipping out that we too had no place to live cuz we were being stubborn and didnt want to live with my parents. so we as i posted last week gave in and decided that this would be best for the next year.

im attempting a to-do list and just going to little bits at a time.

now if i could just mkae up my mind and make decisions i could have people HELP ME! but im such a bum. and when i dont have the answer to something i just give up. so i need to stop that!