Starting to freak out!

I am having one of those days when I have so much to do I am paraylized! I made a promise this New Year that I would stop worrying about everything but I can't stop! I am worried about the extra pounds I put on after the holidays, paying for the wedding- I just sent 2500 to the band and don't know where I am getting all the money I need plus pay a mortagage and property taxes, all the little details I still have to do like order the invites, put all the addresses in my computer, get the guest list from my FH- he keeps saying he is going to do but doesn't!!!, AGGGGG!!! I should be working right now and I am just driving myself nuts!!!!!

Oh.....I'm sorry you're feeling like this. I think you are at the right place for venting. We're all feeling your pain, its amzing how it just dominates your life. Maybe take this weekend to just go to the park or something with your hunny and just swing on the swings or do something completely wedding un-related. Everyone needs a break sometimes

Take a deep breathe and write down on a piece of paper everything that's bothering you. Then put it in your pocket, take a long walk on your lunch break and think about how beautiful your day is going to be! Everything is going to work out fine!!!

It comes in waves - make lists and more lists and more lists and plan a week by week agenda - it'll feel better to know you have control over the things that need to get done!

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Posted by Jan05Bride
It comes in waves - make lists and more lists and more lists and plan a week by week agenda - it'll feel better to know you have control over the things that need to get done!

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I agree! There are weeks when all I can do is fret over the wedding and getting stuff done, then weeks (months sometimes ) when I literally don't think about it at all. Just take it in stride and try to stay organized, it's the best way to ward off these times.

Christine!! Everything is going to work out. Just keep saying that...

It will all be okay Christine! You do need to list everything all out, I couldn't have done any of this without my excel spreadsheets. It will seem like such a tremendous chore, but you may start to feel better afterwards.

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Posted by ckgmwedding

I am having one of those days when I have so much to do I am paraylized! I made a promise this New Year that I would stop worrying about everything but I can't stop! I am worried about the extra pounds I put on after the holidays, paying for the wedding- I just sent 2500 to the band and don't know where I am getting all the money I need plus pay a mortagage and property taxes, all the little details I still have to do like order the invites, put all the addresses in my computer, get the guest list from my FH- he keeps saying he is going to do but doesn't!!!, AGGGGG!!! I should be working right now and I am just driving myself nuts!!!!!

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breathe chris - we just paid for our bands also...you will be ok

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Posted by LadyPrincess

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Posted by ckgmwedding

I am having one of those days when I have so much to do I am paraylized! I made a promise this New Year that I would stop worrying about everything but I can't stop! I am worried about the extra pounds I put on after the holidays, paying for the wedding- I just sent 2500 to the band and don't know where I am getting all the money I need plus pay a mortagage and property taxes, all the little details I still have to do like order the invites, put all the addresses in my computer, get the guest list from my FH- he keeps saying he is going to do but doesn't!!!, AGGGGG!!! I should be working right now and I am just driving myself nuts!!!!!

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breathe chris - we just paid for our bands also...you will be ok

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I wish it was for the wedding band I was wearing for the rest of my life! This is just for the music! Darn, another thing I still need to find!

I know exactly what you're going through...I feel like I'm going through the same thing! My FH has been going so slow with his guest list and getting addresses from him has been like pulling teeth!! I worry constantly about money and how we're going to pull this off, and also how I'm going to fit into my gown after eating my way through the holidays!

I guess just try to stay positive that everything will work out and in the end you wind up marrying the love of your life! (Maybe I should follow my own advice!)