starting to get depressed

ok so i have been engaged for over a year now and we havent even started looking at venues yet he keeps saying he want to wait till we have more money. im the type that wants to book a place and get at least that squared away but fh is afraid if we book too early that was if something happens financially and we get stuck. this is really starting to upset me and just wanna start the planning process. i told him lets just go look at some venues and at least get an idea os what things cost but these are the places i really really am interested in if anyone has any quotes please send them my way it is for a january wedding



1. the venetian yacht club

2. danfords

3. three village inn

4. stonebridge

5. smithtown landing

6. fox hollow

7. meadow club

8. old field club

9. thatched cottage

10 flowerfield


any of these quotes would be great! thank you ladies

starting to get depressed - Long Island Weddings

I don't have quotes for any of those, but three village inn, Stonebridge and smithtown landing are all lessings venues. If you call the main number for the lessings venues they should give you a quote over the phone. The only quote I have is for Timber Point; if you want it let me know .....January I noticed is the cheapest month to get married in, so hopefully that will help keep the price down for you guys. It can't hurt to start looking at places just to get quotes of what things cost.

starting to get depressed - Long Island Weddings

I have quotes for the Riviera, Lombardi's on the Bay/Sound, and the View if you want them

starting to get depressed - Long Island Weddings

if your on a tight budget you may want to check out a few venues that offer an all inclusive package. comes with centerpieces, dj, photography, video, limo and the venue for 5 hours
a few places that offer this are
the sterling
east wind
Stewart manor country club
kofc Oceanside
Miller place inn
they offer something arid 100 for 10k!!!
I commented on your other party with my info on thatched cottage that's all I remember. another piece of advice, I was told my several places that price change yearly do if u get a quote today in 4 months it could have changed waiting may be tough.

starting to get depressed - Long Island Weddings

oh I knew I forgot one, Mediterranean manor also has one! they had a 75 person buffet package for 7600 all included!!

starting to get depressed - Long Island Weddings

Fox Hollow is very reasonable so was the Historical Thatched Cottage and Floral Terrace. Keep in mind that you only need to put a deposit down when you book. Some places only require a few hundred dollars to hold a date.There's nothing wrong with looking, that doesn't mean ur signing a contact right away! Took me and my FH a long time to get up the funds to book and find the perfect place..everyone is different! Good luck!!

starting to get depressed - Long Island Weddings

you can call most places and they will give you quotes over the phone! also your vendors and RH are all payment schedules so you can definitely start looking! it took us about 4 months of looking before we booked :)