starting to get upset

Lately things just seemto be spiraling downward.
With 52 days to go, I should be happy and excited, but I'm not.

I'm starting to worry about the spending that is left to do. One more paycheck until the wedding ( i get paid once a month) and I am trying to budget it out)
I'm starting to worry about where we are going to be living after the wedding. My dad lives with me, and he was supposed to be moving in with his 'lady friend' when she buys her co-op, and then FH would move in with me. She is now renegging on her contract, so now I have no clue as to what dad is going to do. Looks like I'll be cashing in my 401K to buy him an apartment, and I'll be stuck with two mortgages. I haven't told FH yet, he's going to flip and I just can't deal with it right now.
Just found out over the weekend that my videographer is moving to Vegas - IN TWO WEEKS - to become the pro photog for Criss Angel. And when was he going to let me know this ?
My shower is this Saturday, and almost nothing has come off of my registries.

I just feel so down right now that I want to walk away from everything.

Susi!!! Everything will work itself out - it always does!!! Your videographer - WOW! Um, can you say UNPROFESSIONAL? So sorry you're going through that - I hope he has a replacement already set up for you!

Don't worry about you shower gifts - seriously, EVERYONE waits for the absolute last minute! It's going to be great!

And as for your dad moving - yikes! Is there another option that doesn't include you buying him a place? Is there a chance he and his lady friend would move into a rental together? Or something?

Sue- can your Dad move into Mike's place? Sorry about your videographer. Can your photographer recommend someone?

I'm SOOOO sorry to hear about your troubles!! I'm sending lots of prayers your way

Definitely don't worry about the shower presents - like the OP mentioned, they always go at the last minute. I'm sure your shower will be LOVELY!

As for your videographer, that is REALLY unprofessional. Do you have a contract with him? If you do, maybe he can have a friend or a colleague honor & carry out the contract for you? Good luck!!

I promise you that everything will work out-easier said that to actually believe it i know, but I was in your place and it all did work out.
As far as your shower...dont sweat it-most things will come of the day before and day of It will get better

Everything always finds a way of working itself out..

Everything will work out! Hang in there...

Susi, keep your chin up and remember that you are marrying your love and you will have a beautiful day! If you need a great videographer, Steve Taub productions is amazing-we are using him...FM me if you need info!

As for your dad-so sorry to hear! Can you maybe do a rental? We rent and love it! There are many beautiful places that are rentals!