STD - addressing question

shoegal68 Posted: Jul 17, 2007 02:36 PM

STD - addressing question

i am about to send out my STD. One of my friends is in the middle of a divorce.. a bitter one. he still lives in the basement for now.

My question how do i address the envelope.??

Ms Angela with her maiden name or
continue to use her married name??

i am little worried if i use her maiden name and her husband gets the mail he might get upset (seeing her maiden name) & not give it to her..
yes.. its getting a little ugly

thanks !

jeffamanda080808 Posted: Jul 17, 2007 02:38 PM

Re: STD - addressing question

I went throught the same thing for a friends shower. I used the married name becuase lets face it...it's still her legal name. My friends husband (now ex husband) would have totally freaked out if I put her maiden name. HTH

meg210 Posted: Jul 17, 2007 02:39 PM

Re: STD - addressing question

IMO if she's still married, you should send it addressed to her with her married name.

shoegal68 Posted: Jul 17, 2007 02:40 PM

Re: STD - addressing question

so do i acknowledge him at all on the STD??

Mr & Mrs... ... or
Mrs.... or
Ms.....

ugh... i am pretty sure the divorice is almost a done deal

thanks