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jenniejdyl Posted:

STD's

So....curious to know..if you're guest list has as a very first 'rough' draft 275 people on it -how many STD's do you send out? Is it suppose to be only for family & close, close friends?

Im confused~!
FutureMrs.M Posted:

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I finalized my list to send them...

Yankees2323 Posted:

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so did i.... im sending mine out in june

Lsorrent Posted:

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Posted by FutureMrs.M

I finalized my list to send them...



I plan to do the same.
20mrsc10 Posted:

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im basically only sending std's to oot town guests--and one per family..

the only people who will get them locally are our immediate families and the bridal party..any one other than that i don't want to be locked into inviting
jenniejdyl Posted:

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im basically only sending std's to oot town guests--and one per family..
the only people who will get them locally are our immediate families and the bridal party..any one other than that i don't want to be locked into inviting
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This was my train of thought. Ive had people say not to lock yourself into having to invite everyone that you send a STD to. So...I just got engaged a week ago -what month should I send the STD's out & roughly how many? A finalized list?

-J
Lsorrent Posted:

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Posted by jenniejdyl

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im basically only sending std's to oot town guests--and one per family..
the only people who will get them locally are our immediate families and the bridal party..any one other than that i don't want to be locked into inviting
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This was my train of thought. Ive had people say not to lock yourself into having to invite everyone that you send a STD to. So...I just got engaged a week ago -what month should I send the STD's out & roughly how many? A finalized list?

-J



I think it's recommended to send STD's about 9 months to a year in advance of the wedding.
Yankees2323 Posted:

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if ur wedding date 3/26 is a def i would send them out now or in a mnth or two

JenBill61210 Posted:

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you can send them out now if you want since your wedding is almost a year away. i would send them only to those you definitely want there.... bc once an STD is sent then you can't retract an invite.... i am sending to close family, friends and OOT'ers.

jenniejdyl Posted:

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Got it...Thanks ladies!!!
20mrsc10 Posted:

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Posted by Lsorrent


Posted by jenniejdyl

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im basically only sending std's to oot town guests--and one per family..
the only people who will get them locally are our immediate families and the bridal party..any one other than that i don't want to be locked into inviting
--------------------------------------------------------------------

This was my train of thought. Ive had people say not to lock yourself into having to invite everyone that you send a STD to. So...I just got engaged a week ago -what month should I send the STD's out & roughly how many? A finalized list?

-J



I think it's recommended to send STD's about 9 months to a year in advance of the wedding.



i agree--were getting married in july of next year, and were sending out our std's in either july or august..
emc282rjm Posted:

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Posted by jenniejdyl

So....curious to know..if you're guest list has as a very first 'rough' draft 275 people on it -how many STD's do you send out? Is it suppose to be only for family & close, close friends?

Im confused~!



Also, be careful that you are definitely going to invite these people to your wedding (barring unforseen circumstances). You don't want to send out 275 STDs, but only invite 200 of those people.
jenniejdyl Posted:

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All great advice ladies! Thank you so much!

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