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Steve and I need your prayers! (warning: graphic pictures inside)

hayleyandsteve Posted:

Steve and I need your prayers! (warning: graphic pictures inside)

Hi girls...

Well, on Tuesday, Steve was in a very bad accident... he was hit by a suburban while riding his bicycle. He was taken by helicopter to the hospital, and remained in the ICU for 2 days.... he needed surgery to close a large laceration on his stomach that left his ribs exposed, and needed stitches on both of his arms and face. His injuries were very severe, and he lost a LOT of blood... but luckily after two days in intensive care, he was brought to a regular room, and now he is home with me.

It really was the scariest thing that has ever happened to us... and the thought of losing the love of my life was just unbearable... especially only two months before becoming his wife! All I could do was bargain with god... and pray for his recover.... and although he's still very badly injured, he is doing much better and will be okay. In light of all of this, I started to thing about the things that are important.... and the things that arent. I felt so silly for worrying about stupid little details for our wedding... and I realize now all I want to do is be his wife, and love him and take care of him forever.

Please girls.... I know we all get very caught up in plannign the perfect wedding, but please take a step back and realize what really matters.

I'm including some pictures too... but they are very graphic. Please pray for a full recovery for my lovieeee!
(I'm not including the ones of his face, he feels embarrased!)

FIrst, a picture of his left arm ('road rash' as they call it... they could not use sutures because there was just no skin left, then there are some sutures in a lower spot)...... Second, a picture of his right arm (not as bad), and Third, a picture of his torso (needed 39 staples).







FullersBride Posted:

Re: Steve and I need your prayers! (warning: graphic pictures inside)

I'm so sorry this all happened!!!

I'm glad he i doing better and is home now!! What hospital was he flown to?? I'm a Paramedic with StonyBrook and we run the helicopters in SUffolk county!

I wish him a speedy recovery!!

robinandjoe Posted:

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OMG, thank god that he is ok!
tk1995sc Posted:

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my prayers are with the both of you.

Licee15 Posted:

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Greg and my prayers are with you and steve....

Tobewed07 Posted:

Re: Steve and I need your prayers! (warning: graphic pictures inside)

OMG! Sweetie, I'm so glad he is ok! My heart sank when I started reading your post! I am so happy he is home and recovering!!



Thanks for posting, you are so right about our perspective on things!!



billandme Posted:

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OMG hayley! I am so happy that steve is at home and recovering with you, where he should be.

What a scary few days its been for the two of you........and your faith and love helped you in MANY ways........I know steve will have a LONG road ahead of him in regards to recovery, but he has you there to be with him and help him through it.......

Keep us updated on his recovery.................
Regal Beagle Posted:

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We will pray...thank goodness he is OK!


How are you holding up?
MrsQ-in2007 Posted:

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Hayley, OMG!!!!! Thank God he is doing a bit better and is home with you! I wish him a very speedy recovery - how terrifying this must have been for you! That wound in his stomach looks so severely painful! His left arm too!

Many blessings and wishes for a complete and quick recovery for him!!!
cuteauburnininny Posted:

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omg i am soo sorry.
anglbyme Posted:

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OMG....Thank God he is alive! He had an angel by his side that's for sure. Hope he gets well soon.......
Happybride2005 Posted:

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i'm so glad that he's ok. an angel was watching him

Starwend Posted:

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OMG! I'll pray for a speedy recovery!!! Thank GOD he's home with you now!
Snickers76 Posted:

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Thank God he is ok!!! You must be tremendously relieved...

I will pray for his speedy recovery!

trish71407 Posted:

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OMG! You are both in my thoughts and prayers! How scary for this to happen to you! I am glad that he has begun to recover and is doing well!
faithandkevin Posted:

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OMG Hayley!! I can't even imagine what you've been through!! I'm so glad he's doing better. I'll keep you two in my prayers!!
Future Mrs R Posted:

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OMG! Our prayers are with you!
MimiMcG Posted:

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OMG! I am so sorry that this happened! Sending for a smooth and speedy recovery!!! It is horrifying how quickly and suddenly terrible things can happen, and it is only by the grace of god that you get through things like that. Thank God he is alive, and that he has you to be alive for!
bella62307 Posted:

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My prayers are with you both!

GettinHutched Posted:

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ohhhh Hayley!!! You and your poor FH!! I can't imagine how you must have felt. My heart goes out to you! Lots of for your FH's speedy recovery and lots of to you!!!

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