is it the brides responsibility to get a babysitter for the kids in the wedding? I mean i did anyway and we are paying ,but my family is making it seem like it was all my responsibility to begin with,
allornil
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hell no! Its the parents responsibility. it was nice you offered but no.
Bee12
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Posted by allornil
hell no! Its the parents responsibility. it was nice you offered but no.
agreed
harts2976
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Well the kids in my wedding are my nephews and my sister passed away so I figured someone should be in charge of them!! lol and the FG is FH neice. FSIL (FG mom) will not let any one watch her. (I am guessing) which will annoy me because they left the e-party an hour early and was screaming the whole time. I think I am going to tell FH he has to tell them to figure something out. They have family here. I will offer for her to go with my nephews. My moms best friends daughters are coming to the wedding and once the kids are ready to go they will head back to the hotel with the kids (right next door). If i hear the FG screaming the whole night i will lose it. WOW thank you for bringing this up it just made me think of this!
win01
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I think the parents or the people who they come with should be responsible for them. It is a nice idea to have someone watch them, but only if you know the sitter and can be sure they are 'OK'...I know I wouldn't let my flowergirl (5) go with someone I didn't know personally.... I have 10 neices and nephews from 2-10 yrs old coming...If their parents need to leave earlier due to the kiddies, I am fine with it...I can trust my sibs to even take the little ones home if necessary...One would probably do it so the rest can finish the night. Since I am having so many kids I am having an early wedding too...Should solve alot of the kid issues.
There are alot of weridos and pervs out there so I would let them decide who watches their kid...just my opinion.
SoonToBeMrsCampos
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Oh hell to the no! First of all, the only kids allowed are my nieces and best mans 3yo girl (my fg) and 5month old son. If anyone thinks I'm providing sitting, or even looking into it, they can all kiss my a s s. Fo'real!!
Sorry but if I were you, I would flip out on these ppl and tell them to take responsibility for their own kids!
