with this BM dress nonsense! ...All BMs are different sizes etc. and I want them all to be comfortable but still want an elegant wedding. Should they wear the same dress or different dresses, then which dress should they wear: (color: satin faced taffeta plum. Like option 3)
All my girls are different sizes and I'm having them wear the same color and designer with different dresses because honestly, I want them to be comfortable and look great all at the same time. I couldn't go with mermaid because I have some heavy girls, and I wanted to stay away with ruffles on top that would hide the girls who are lacking up there and make them look flat chested. It's hard when everyone is different body types. I thought it would be less stress on me and then I know the girls will pay for something they will DEF wear again!
Why not ask your girls what they would perfer?
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All my girls are different sizes and I'm having them wear the same color and designer with different dresses because honestly, I want them to be comfortable and look great all at the same time. I couldn't go with mermaid because I have some heavy girls, and I wanted to stay away with ruffles on top that would hide the girls who are lacking up there and make them look flat chested. It's hard when everyone is different body types. I thought it would be less stress on me and then I know the girls will pay for something they will DEF wear again!
Why not ask your girls what they would perfer?
ITA with allowing them to have something they love and can wear again. Thanks!!!
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All my girls are different sizes and I'm having them wear the same color and designer with different dresses because honestly, I want them to be comfortable and look great all at the same time. I couldn't go with mermaid because I have some heavy girls, and I wanted to stay away with ruffles on top that would hide the girls who are lacking up there and make them look flat chested. It's hard when everyone is different body types. I thought it would be less stress on me and then I know the girls will pay for something they will DEF wear again!
Why not ask your girls what they would perfer?
ITA with allowing them to have something they love and can wear again. Thanks!!!
No problem! good luck!
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Have you actually had them try anything on yet? The reason I ask, is because there were plenty of dresses I saw online that ended up looking terrible on my girls. My suggestion, just go to a store, start pulling and trying on dresses and go from there.
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If you want everyone to have the same dress, I would go with option 3. It looks like it may be the most flattering dress but still very elegant (but they should def try it on to be sure!) If it winds up that one dress does not suit everyone, I think its perfectly fine to have girls in different dresses but same color. It will def look elegant still.
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Have you actually had them try anything on yet? The reason I ask, is because there were plenty of dresses I saw online that ended up looking terrible on my girls. My suggestion, just go to a store, start pulling and trying on dresses and go from there.
The drama in my life is that they all live OOT and the only one that's in NY is currently 8 months Preggers, lol...so I'm kinda stuck.
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Thanks girls!!!
Tomlaur0808
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I LOOOOOOOOOOOVE! #4
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I love the cut on #1, no matter what body type, it give them a flattering and sexy back cut. The dress looks similiar to #2, it's a beautiful cut. It might be harder though for ladies with a bigger bust to squeeze into #2, if that is the case, then go with #1 and #3 for BM's with bigger bust since they are by the same designer.
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I LOVE dress #1! (i might even show it to my bm and see what they think)
I love it because of the detailing on the back and it seems like the front of the dress would be flattering on all body types.
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I think that 3 is great because of the ruching and the cut, which is good for most figures. Good luck!
Future Mrs P
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I love #3. Ruching can do amazing things and looks great on every body type!!
dCa51899
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beautiful dresses! They are allll sooooo nice, but if you go with one dress for all the girls, I would think 1 or 3 would be the most universally figure flattering
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Posted by Lsorrent
Have you actually had them try anything on yet? The reason I ask, is because there were plenty of dresses I saw online that ended up looking terrible on my girls. My suggestion, just go to a store, start pulling and trying on dresses and go from there.
best advice ever!! you have to see it for yourself...
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I love the first and the last because they are different. However i completely agree with seeing it in person. I went through a lot of dresses with my girls and believe me they look very different in person
FutureMrsG
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They are all beautiful but I think dress 3 will work best for girls with different body types.
JessNicole7EM
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I think 3 will be the most flattering on everyone.
JillandJoe
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i personally love 4!! I don't like (just my opinion) people in different dresses... my 9 bms picked their dress in color I wanted and all 9 love it and look hot in it... so it can work if thats what u want. Do whatever makes you happy
