Stolen from NW board:Do you ever wonder what ur ex's life is like?

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Posted by cbcf

sometimes...but i still chat with one of them occasionally on IM...well actually i have never contacted him its always him iming me

but i wish him the best. we dated in high school for 3 yrs..thought we were going to be together forever blah blah. soo glad he wasnt 'the one'. and i know now he is working in the city for some recording studio ro something i think he is still dating this girl...but hope he is doing well. we didnt leave off on a bad foot so


the other long term relationship was right after above in college right before FH. well i say i could care less about him bec of what he put me through...but i know and my friends used to tell me all the time i was the best thing that happened to him and he screwed it up big time. i know he has a gf now and is living with my ex-roommate from college- weird haha he dropped out of college right after we broke up to go act..lol ok that didnt happen. but not sure if he is still with that girl or not---whatever...i dont care bout him if he has a good life or not...

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Exactly. I feel like there are two types of ex's
The first type is the kind you can remain friendly with.
The second type is the one you could really care less about cause they were CRAZY!!!

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Posted by NapaValleyGirl

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Posted by Kimbalina

I am friends with all my ex's most are coming to the wedding. 2 are in the bp

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Wow!! That's really rare! Good for you guys!

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some times i think it is awkward,, other times it is fun

I do wonder every now and then. Although things did not end amicably, I do wish him lots of happiness.

His sister-in-law is also one of my best friends, so I do get some gossip occasionally.

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Posted by Kimbalina

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Posted by NapaValleyGirl

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Posted by Kimbalina

I am friends with all my ex's most are coming to the wedding. 2 are in the bp

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Wow!! That's really rare! Good for you guys!

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some times i think it is awkward,, other times it is fun

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I was telling FH the other day that I know his most recent ex's and he's never met any of mine. (i cannot STAND one of his ex's.. Pure evil)
I'm sure it can be awkward at moments that you're all friends etc but it seems like you're all totally mature!! Bravo to maturity!!!

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Posted by yelley77

I do wonder every now and then. Although things did not end amicably, I do wish him lots of happiness.

His sister-in-law is also one of my best friends, so I do get some gossip occasionally.

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Hearing the gossip can be fun at times, right??

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Posted by NapaValleyGirl

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Posted by yelley77

I do wonder every now and then. Although things did not end amicably, I do wish him lots of happiness.

His sister-in-law is also one of my best friends, so I do get some gossip occasionally.

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Hearing the gossip can be fun at times, right??

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Absolutely. When you spend so much of your life with someone I think it's natural to wonder what they are up to.

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by NapaValleyGirl

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Posted by yelley77

I do wonder every now and then. Although things did not end amicably, I do wish him lots of happiness.

His sister-in-law is also one of my best friends, so I do get some gossip occasionally.

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Hearing the gossip can be fun at times, right??

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Absolutely. When you spend so much of your life with someone I think it's natural to wonder what they are up to.

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The ex i was with before FH is a dj on a radio station. Out of curiousity, I went to their website and was totally HORRIFIED.... He is not aging very well. LOLOL

Nah - I know exactly what it's like... I still run into his fam here and there (my bro is best friends with his bro).

My ex ex occasionally emails me with updates about his life too...

I'm on good terms with both of my exes. They're NOT invited to the wedding however!

I just hope they are happy and in good health. One of them was a wreck and he used to say he wouldn't live past 25! LOL- I hear he is married with a kid for awhile now- so I hope he has grown up!!

Another ex I pretty much know he is still in the same place doing the same thing. I just wish him well.

i know what some of mine are up to (thanks myspace)

one of them got married and has 3 kids already. when i saw that i was like THANK GOD IT WASNT ME!!!!

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Posted by NapaValleyGirl

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by NapaValleyGirl

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Posted by yelley77

I do wonder every now and then. Although things did not end amicably, I do wish him lots of happiness.

His sister-in-law is also one of my best friends, so I do get some gossip occasionally.

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Hearing the gossip can be fun at times, right??

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Absolutely. When you spend so much of your life with someone I think it's natural to wonder what they are up to.

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The ex i was with before FH is a dj on a radio station. Out of curiousity, I went to their website and was totally HORRIFIED.... He is not aging very well. LOLOL

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hahahah!! it does make you feel a tiny bit good if they look like shlt. especially if the effed you over.

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by NapaValleyGirl

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by NapaValleyGirl

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Posted by yelley77

I do wonder every now and then. Although things did not end amicably, I do wish him lots of happiness.

His sister-in-law is also one of my best friends, so I do get some gossip occasionally.

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Hearing the gossip can be fun at times, right??

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Absolutely. When you spend so much of your life with someone I think it's natural to wonder what they are up to.

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The ex i was with before FH is a dj on a radio station. Out of curiousity, I went to their website and was totally HORRIFIED.... He is not aging very well. LOLOL

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hahahah!! it does make you feel a tiny bit good if they look like shlt. especially if the effed you over.

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I was like 'someone looks a TEEENY Bit bloated... Interesting, very interesting....' LOLOLOL

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Posted by KK Holiday

i know what some of mine are up to (thanks myspace)

one of them got married and has 3 kids already. when i saw that i was like THANK GOD IT WASNT ME!!!!

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WOW!!! 3 kids!!!!!

i have 2 serious ex b/fs. one is my business partner and an amazing friend. we 'dated' for 4.5 years but for 2.5 of them we were bascially just friends anyway. we are just better this way.

my other ex is a semi-low life. good heart, but no guts. he's going to be 30 this year and still acts like he is 22. I'm still very close to his mom though. lol

FH is definitely lightyears ahead of both of them.. lol

My ex from college tried to keep in touch throughout the years after we broke up via IM...he had hurt me immesely but a little before I met FH I made peace with him. Then he started acting weird again and I had to tell him while everything from the past was water under the bridge that I had moved on with my life and hoped that he had with his, that there was no way we would ever be together again. He was just loonie. I heard from a mutual friend that he's engaged. Good luck to his future wife...that's all I gotta say.

My other ex was an ex twice..I learned with him that you never go back . He was just immature. last I knew he was dating some girl from Oregon and that was well over 2 years ago...so who knows now.

Thank God for FH I love my hunny!

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Posted by bluekat16

My ex from college tried to keep in touch throughout the years after we broke up via IM...he had hurt me immesely but a little before I met FH I made peace with him. Then he started acting weird again and I had to tell him while everything from the past was water under the bridge that I had moved on with my life and hoped that he had with his, that there was no way we would ever be together again. He was just loonie. I heard from a mutual friend that he's engaged. Good luck to his future wife...that's all I gotta say.

My other ex was an ex twice..I learned with him that you never go back . He was just immature. last I knew he was dating some girl from Oregon and that was well over 2 years ago...so who knows now.

Thank God for FH I love my hunny!

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You're so cute!!! LOL

I hope my last ex is miserable, and alone.


Sorry but thats how bad it was LOL