strange invite question...i promise you have never had this issue before!

ddnsp618 Posted: May 27, 2009 09:43 AM

strange invite question...i promise you have never had this issue before!

so we have 3 family friends that are lesbians. ill refer to them as l, t and z. that is not my problem.

my problem is: how do i send the invite?

here is how they are related:
l & z are in a committed relationship and live together

l & t have been working in the same hair salon since before i was born, but t still lives with her parents in queens....but i think she stays with l & z sometimes

now here is my question:
do i send the invite for l, t & z (same envelope) to l & z's house?
do i send the invite for l & z to their house and send t's to hers?
do i send the invite for l, t, & z to the hair salon?
do i send the invite to l & z and t to the hair salon?

Lisa909 Posted: May 27, 2009 09:46 AM

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I think you should send l & z an invite to their house and send t an invite to her house. I think that makes the most sense. HTH

RPMG26599 Posted: May 27, 2009 09:46 AM

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Id say send I & z and invitation and t her own invitation

candybride123 Posted: May 27, 2009 09:50 AM

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Posted by RPMG26599

Id say send I & z and invitation and t her own invitation

ITA send it just like you would send the invite to any couple you know.

And also I have more like 6 invites going out like that haha so it's not that crazy! My wedding is like a freaking gay mixer...

JennyAPH Posted: May 27, 2009 10:02 AM

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I have a headache from this lol jk

Send I&Z together and T her own

PoppedInASnap Posted: May 27, 2009 10:07 AM

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Send t her own :)

MrsCM Posted: May 27, 2009 11:07 AM

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send l&z together & t's to her house or their house or the hair salon, but preferably to her residence I would think.

Espo22 Posted: May 27, 2009 11:09 AM

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I agree, I&Z get one invite to their house and T gets own invite.

I had the same situation, the couple live together so sent an invite with both their names to their house.

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: May 27, 2009 11:10 AM

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option #2 .... and wow... you made my head spin... felt like i was back in school doing algebra

littlepixie12 Posted: May 27, 2009 11:10 AM

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I think it would be like anyone else's invite. You would send the invite for l & z to their house and send t's to her house.. eventhough she lives at home, she should still get her invite there

anneandchris Posted: May 27, 2009 11:20 AM

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Not so strange...

Invitations should always go to a person's residence not their place of business.

So if two people live together and are a couple they get one invite with both names on it.

If they live together but are not a couple -- they get two seperate invites.

The third person should get hers at her home.

MrsGRod09 Posted: May 27, 2009 11:23 AM

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l & z to their house and send t's to hers...most definitely

MLAngelo Posted: May 27, 2009 11:35 AM

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send l & z one invite
send t another to her own home.

When you do l & z you list the couple in alphabetical order unless you are closer to one then the other.

For example my cousin's name gets a higher position on the invitation even though her partner's last name comes first alphabetically. But if they were both just friends then her partner's name would come first.

flairforfashion Posted: May 27, 2009 11:37 AM

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For L & Z, send the invite like this:

Ms. L
Ms. Z
Address
City State Zip

For the other one, just send it to her own place.

EsquireBride Posted: May 27, 2009 11:54 AM

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L and Z are in a relationship and live together -- they should get their own invite made out to how you would regularly make an invite out to any committed couple. The invite should go to their house/apartment.

T's invite should go to her regular address (place in Queens) since that is where she primarily lives. I am sure T gets mail there anyway (bills, magazines, etc.)

Since you know where everyone lives, there is no reason to send the invite to the hair salon.