Everyone has an opinion about everything! My older sister is my MOH and she has a strong personality especially when it comes to her likes and dislikes, We saw a bridesmaid dress that was nice the other day, but I am not 100% sure, so I told her I am willing to do all the LEG WORK and search around and she got snippy with me telling me I am putting too much emphasis into the dresses and overthinking it and she liked the dress the other day. I said I saw some other stuff online which I am willing to see in person on my own and then if they are nice, I will have her look. She then said that she has to like it and she didn't like other stuff I picked out. I feel like this is my wedding and everyones opinions are trying to take over. I know she has to wear the dress, but it;s my wedding. Any advice? I am so fed up!
LIVineBride09
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Aww I feel your pain... all along people were trying to inject their opinions and had something to say about every little thing we did. I just told everyone in the most non-bridezilla way possible, 'this is my wedding-- I am paying for it and I will plan it the way I want my day to be.' People were still on my back about things constantly but I just ignored them after a while and it went away for the most part. Keep your chin up and don't let them get to you and do what you want-- it's your day girl!!! You would do it for them, so let them do it for you!
twein28
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but my sister does have a point...she is the MOH and has to wear the dress and wants to like it on...that's when I dont know how to handle it.
FrenchToast13
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I can empathize! When we chose our colors (light blue and yellow) I know one of my BMs (my cousin) will have something to say about it, or at least a face to make! If I choose blue dresses, she'll be ok, but if I choose pale yellow, she'll be miserable. Plus I know she's just going to hate the entire color scheme anyway, because she hates yellow, along with pretty much any other color but purple....I want her to be happy, but it is my wedding. I'm going to try to fair, but ultimately it's my call, as it is yours! Your sister can choose whatever dresses she wants for her wedding.
FutureJOC
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sorry you are going through this... bottom line is, it's YOUR wedding. I understand wanting to make sure all the BMs like the dress you pick for them but ultimately it is your decision. No one else's.
