Stress level is SO high anyone else?

As I mentioned, FH moved into our new place as of 3/1. We've gotten nowhere with setting it up. We're both so worn out especially since my job is crazy and FH started a new job on 3/1 also. I have a lot of personal stuff to do..like returning LONG overdue library books, getting my passport photo taken, etc

and I'm not even dealing with wedding stuff such as weighing an invite and buying postage, printing the additional envelopes I'll need to print, getting a headpiece and DOJ, etc etc

FH is supposed to be setting up a meeting between the priest and the rabbi so we can hammer out our ceremony but he procrastinates every little thing and then I end up doing it.

Thank god all of our major vendors are booked, but I still need favors and I can't decide... Any help?

My job is so stressful. I have an extra project right now and a lot of stuff going on. I feel like I'm always 2 minutes from a nervous breakdown. WHYYYYYY

try to take a dep breathe and calm down a little.
nothing will be gained from being so stressed out. trust me on that one.
hold of fon favors if you can until you find out how many people are coming to your wedding. even if you have to rush ship them, you will have them before your wedding. at least this is one less thing you have to worry about right now.

everything else, take one thing at a time. even one day at a time. so for example, today, if you know your FH won't call the rabbi or the priest, then make a quick call and set it up. done! we can all find 2 minutes in the day to make a phone call to make an appointment.

as for setting up your new apt. even if you go one day during the weekend, for a few hours, you will feel like you accomplished something. you don't have to be there for 12 hours and kill yourself in one day to feel like you got things done.

i will say though, if you don't have a passport yet, go take your picture ASAP! this should be on your to do list at #1 - it can take a while to get back and you don't want to cut it too close to the wedding and HM.

Take a deep breath (I know sometimes even that feels like too much...I've felt what you're feeling before)...Things will all work out and you still have a few more months until the wedding to handle smaller details.

Take a day for your self and treat yourself to a day of relaxation. Little by little things will fall into place. I'm in a similar spot right now w/ work - too many things going on, so I had to take a mini break from planning, and now I'm back on it and everything's working out.

Join the club. My stress is so high right now. We'll get through it (I hope!