Ok, so how many people are starting to feel alittle stressed out? Whether its because of FH, Family members, friends or just planning in general?
If you had your RH paid for and came into some extra money ...... what would you get that wasent in your budget taht you alwasy wanted ??
I would probably UPGRADE everything !! I always wanted a Platinum Wedding !!
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Starting? I've been stressed all week over these damn BM dresses.
As for unexpected $$$, I'd probably get the horse and carriage to take me to the church....oh and if the RH were paid for, I'd get married at Oheka. I always wanted the 'Cinderella' wedding and that's a big part of it.
rocketsummer17
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Just getting stressed now?? I have been freaking out about everything since we booked the hall 10 months ago!!
If we had extra money, I would get a wedding planner (to make my ideas come to life), photobooth and cigar roller. And if it was alot of money, I would get one of our favorite bands to come in and do some music at an after party (probably plain white t's for the simple fact that they are our first dance song...)
T E R I
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Since we bought the house in Nov I've been stressed-but thats just the way I am
And if we had extra money I would add the viennese hour
grkbarbie
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not to come off rude lol which i usually do..but i always mean well.
if I were stressed about finances regarding the wedding, and i came across extra money... why the heck would i upgrade??lol SAVEEEEEEEEEEE, pay off the wedding i already started planning. sheeeeeeesh
if we all come across extra money, and keep upgrading, we will never get ahead.
Junebride2010
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Posted by grkbarbie
not to come off rude lol which i usually do..but i always mean well.
if I were stressed about finances regarding the wedding, and i came across extra money... why the heck would i upgrade??lol SAVEEEEEEEEEEE, pay off the wedding i already started planning. sheeeeeeesh
if we all come across extra money, and keep upgrading, we will never get ahead.
ITA!!
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I'm not stressed about the wedding...i'm just taking it one step at a time. As for unexpected money, I don't know what I would change...I like everything the way that it is....maybe I would fly in a hollywood makeup artist to come do my makeup for the wedding or something but that's not even like a big deal. I don't know haha I'm pretty satisfied
kat2010
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i'm not stressing too much yet :)
.....and if i had some extra cash i would probably get the dress i want and not worry about the price! but most importantly i would put the money toward a house!!!! ....the wedding is just one day and everything seems great as it is right now, no need to upgrade!
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Posted by grkbarbie
not to come off rude lol which i usually do..but i always mean well.
if I were stressed about finances regarding the wedding, and i came across extra money... why the heck would i upgrade??lol SAVEEEEEEEEEEE, pay off the wedding i already started planning. sheeeeeeesh
if we all come across extra money, and keep upgrading, we will never get ahead.
Obviously alot of people would save ...... but the question was meant towards the wedding. What would you do if you didnt have to save for something else?
irisheyes23
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I would get married on the water and still invite 200 people and still have it in the summer!!
Ivansgirl
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I feel like stress and money go together like love and marriage. It is tough having a wedding on Long Island.... we are paying for it all ourselves..... fh was laid off and i am working 3 jobs..... but we are doing the best we can. As for extra $$ I wouldn't add anything to the wedding just put it towards what we have already.
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Posted by FutureMrsSoltan
Posted by grkbarbie
not to come off rude lol which i usually do..but i always mean well.
if I were stressed about finances regarding the wedding, and i came across extra money... why the heck would i upgrade??lol SAVEEEEEEEEEEE, pay off the wedding i already started planning. sheeeeeeesh
if we all come across extra money, and keep upgrading, we will never get ahead.
Obviously alot of people would save ...... but the question was meant towards the wedding. What would you do if you didnt have to save for something else?
I would still save (after just adding a viennese hour, which wouldn't deplete all the new $$$) - there is an endless amount of stuff that can be added to a wedding, why put all your $$ towards it?
