Stressed

MSeed Posted: Mar 13, 2008 02:59 PM

Stressed

Ok, so I have 7 1/2 months to go and I am stressed and agitated and confused about everything. I find myself to not be my happiest. Everything FH does lately gets on my last nerve.

I have quite a bit of time left, am I going to feel like this til the end?

Am I the only one??

Celest Posted: Mar 13, 2008 03:01 PM

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Posted by MSeed

Ok, so I have 7 1/2 months to go and I am stressed and agitated and confused about everything. I find myself to not be my happiest. Everything FH does lately gets on my last nerve.

I have quite a bit of time left, am I going to feel like this til the end?

Am I the only one??

No we all go through it at different times. You are not alone!!!

wifetobe Posted: Mar 13, 2008 03:01 PM

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Posted by MSeed

Ok, so I have 7 1/2 months to go and I am stressed and agitated and confused about everything. I find myself to not be my happiest. Everything FH does lately gets on my last nerve.

I have quite a bit of time left, am I going to feel like this til the end?

Am I the only one??

Of course you're not the only one.. Maybe it's time fore a break in the planning.. maybe you and FH should take a day trip somewhere or if you can a quick weekend somewhere. it will remind you of why you are planning this HUGE event!!!

Hang in there....

jonsgirl04 Posted: Mar 13, 2008 03:02 PM

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Dont worry I feel like that right now! I feel the closer it gets the more i get stressed out! I sometimes cant wait until its over!!

bluekat16 Posted: Mar 13, 2008 03:03 PM

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You're not alone. As it gets closer anxiety sets in and nerves...it's natural. I totally lost it on my FH last weekend over somethiing that i normally would've just brushed off. It happens.

futuremrsfab Posted: Mar 13, 2008 03:04 PM

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Posted by MSeed

Ok, so I have 7 1/2 months to go and I am stressed and agitated and confused about everything. I find myself to not be my happiest. Everything FH does lately gets on my last nerve.

I have quite a bit of time left, am I going to feel like this til the end?

Am I the only one??

you are definately not alone! hang in there, I'm sure it will get better :)

TrueLoveIn2008 Posted: Mar 13, 2008 03:06 PM

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Not alone!

FH doesn't even want to meet with a minister of any sort! Talk about getting on your last nerve.

Don't worry - it will pass - just remember why you're doing everything.

MrsK2008 Posted: Mar 13, 2008 03:06 PM

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I am with you, hang in there!

Annoulak Posted: Mar 13, 2008 03:45 PM

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I've been feeling the same way for a few weeks so far...seems like there's no end in sight

roan126 Posted: Mar 13, 2008 03:47 PM

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Its normal. Word of advice, since you do have a decent amount of time...anything you can do now, DO!!! Dont wait until the last minute to do things like bridesmaid gifts, invites, favors, etc. You will save yourself so much stress towards the end.

Maria31 Posted: Mar 13, 2008 03:47 PM

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You are NOT alone!! I have my moments, too!
Hang in there - all of this madness with definitely be worth it when you are a WIFE!!

Mici n KC Posted: Mar 13, 2008 03:47 PM

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Lately FH has been cranky and he has no stress! I think he needs a swift kick in the arse!

Ms Sawney Posted: Mar 13, 2008 03:55 PM

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we all go through this at 1 time or the other in our planning it will get better

MSeed Posted: Mar 13, 2008 04:14 PM

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Thanks ladies. It's good to know that I'm not alone!

davenjess Posted: Mar 13, 2008 04:18 PM

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the best thing you can do is make a 'you date'. promise each other there will not be one word about the wedding, planning or life after...just enjoy time together STRESS FREE!!!!!!!!

madseason Posted: Mar 13, 2008 04:18 PM

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Posted by MSeed

Ok, so I have 7 1/2 months to go and I am stressed and agitated and confused about everything. I find myself to not be my happiest. Everything FH does lately gets on my last nerve.

I have quite a bit of time left, am I going to feel like this til the end?

Am I the only one??

Nope! Join the club! If i hear my mothers foot steps i lock myself in another room. I cant deal with it anymore. Just the W word sends me through the roof!

I have 2 mons.. I hope not!!!

zoe282 Posted: Mar 13, 2008 04:21 PM

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I am totally stressed and I have done my best to be ahead of the game this whole time! It's very frustrating! Not too long now for me. Do your best to relax when you can. Like it was said above try to remember why you are doing this. Hang in there!

MrsHtobe Posted: Mar 13, 2008 04:43 PM

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you're DEF not alone

I've been so stressed out lately, I feel like sometimes FH and I can barely talk about stuff. It turns into an argument so quickly

But I'm sure it will pass. No worries!!!

autumnbride10 Posted: Mar 13, 2008 04:44 PM

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You're not alone. Just take a break for a week or two. You have plenty of time left, and everything will get done. Avoid talking about it, or even thinking about it for a short while, and you will come back refreshed and raring to go! Too much of anything will burn you out....