I just realized that my wedding is 66 days away and I still have so much to do. I'm having a mini heart attack.
I don't love my dress and still haven't scheduled a fitting yet. I didn't even look at rings, or scheduled my cake tasting. All these things seem so overwhelming and its making me drag my feet on all my tasks.
How does everyone else deal with this stress?
FutureSMwifey
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Just focus on 1 thing at a time..I would pick one thing that takes the longest to get done first and conquer that. Then cross it off your list and move on. I found that doing things a long the way relieves a lot of the stress....have fun and try not to get to crazy
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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Believe me, when it gets down to crunch time, you just find a way to get it all done... I make lists of things to accomplish each day that has helped... i dont always accomplish it all of course, but it keeps you more on schedule... I think im calmer now than ive been in the past few weeks!
Summertimegal424
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dont stress. we didn't do our cake till like 2 weeks before our wedding.
i did my first dress fitting 22 days before the wedding. and my second a week later, and i picked up my dress 2 days before the wedding.
as for the rings...they can still be ordered and ready in time.
relax and enjoy!
jmbc2377
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Hang in there, you have time. If you have to custom order your rings it takes about 6 weeks - that's what I was told and what I had to do. I agree with an above poster, make a list. That has been a saving grace for me.
MirabellaNYC
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Girl I'm a bit behind on the wagon myself..
Don't stress!! Everything will be fine
FutureMrsG
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Make a list of everything that you still need to do. I tried to put things in order of importance then I just went through the list. I am still working on my list but I am much calmer.
MirabellaNYC
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I just went on THE KNOT and went through the checklist. Its very helpful and I feel a bit better. Not so stressed.
glenisland09
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Don't dwell on EVERYTHING you have left. Instead make a list of just two things you want to think about tomorrow... maybe call to schedule your fitting and decide on a day that you and FH can go look at rings. If you break it up into smaller amounts of work to be done, its an easier pill to swallow.
