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lgluszak Posted: Nov 17, 2004 08:41 PM+

lgluszak MEMBER SINCE: 1/04 TOTAL POSTS : 376 WEDDING DATE: Apr 01, 2005

Posted: Nov 17, 2004 08:41 PM

STRESSED ABOUT $$$$$$

My FH and I have been having some issues around $$$ I get so angry with him sometimes about it. It is not like I am spending a ton and throwing it out the window... Anyone else having some issues with this? I think he is being unreasonable about it when he smokes a pack a day at $5 bucks a pack!!!

Katherine121 Posted: Nov 17, 2004 11:31 PM+

Katherine121 MEMBER SINCE: 10/04 TOTAL POSTS : 1859 WEDDING DATE: May 21, 2005

Posted: Nov 17, 2004 11:31 PM

Re: STRESSED ABOUT $$$$$$

You know what? Work the money issues out NOW. Fighting over money is the number 1 reason for the breakups of relationships, especially married relationships. I told FH what he's responsible for in terms of the wedding, and the rest I don't even tell him about. There would be 'issues' galore. You're not alone.

cmastro25 Posted: Nov 18, 2004 01:40 AM+

cmastro25 MEMBER SINCE: 7/04 TOTAL POSTS : 3838 WEDDING DATE: May 21, 2006

Posted: Nov 18, 2004 01:40 AM

Re: STRESSED ABOUT $$$$$$

Do you guys have a set amount you are supposed to save each month? FI and I opened a joint account as soon as we were engaged and we put in a set amount each month. As long as we both make our set payments each month, the other can't complain about what you do with your own money.