stressed planning again

First and foremost Congrats for trying to make this work again!! First, be rational. Why do you want to cancel it? If you cancel it because it's too stressful or you're afraid of marrying the wrong man, take a step back before rebooking or doing anything further. Why did you put so much money and time into this in the first place?

Also did you guys seek marriage counseling to figure out why you cancelled the first time? sometimes an unbiased makes a world of a difference.. sometimes the couple know from jumpstreet that it wasnt mean to be but the idea of having this big day is more important than the compability/longeviity of the couple. if that makes sense ... or the couple may be madly in love but they just need to work/ tweek a few areas like communication etc.

i cant stay i can imagine how feel bc im not in your shoes so right now all you have is my 2cents. but because you stated that you are only to try for the 'the last time'. I just want to really want you to think about this hard.. I had to do my homework mentally financially and spritually this past year since we have been engaged because this process is not easy at all and if you are on a budget, its even harder with more STRESS. but i thank god everything that we have a 2year engagement and we pushed back the wedding. everything happens for a reason. theres a reaon you guys cancelled the wedding which is not a bad thing but if you both are willing to do this again...obviously theres something worth fighting for. so understand that if you are going to make this work with this man, there will be days you want to give up and cancel again because it will always seem like the easiest thing to do

but understand that you cant figure out the root of the problem now, whether it may be you, him or both of you... chances are you will always have this problem again.

FM me if you need to ! but congrats again and I wish you and FH all the best