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Stressing out

justysgrl Posted:

Stressing out

I am stressed out !!!! I haven't even started booking anything because of my fiance and my screwed up scheduels............ Does any one have advice????????????

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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dont worry about booking anything right now.... wait until some of the stress goes away... it'll only drive u more crazy

Summertimegal424 Posted:

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i felt like that in the beginning too...my advice to you is to take a brake! get your mind away from the wedding planning, and eventually you will start the planning again on your own and u will be more relaxed

ilonka020 Posted:

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don't stress it, i havn't done anything yet either and i probably won't for a while due to both my and fh hectic schedules.

MrsDtoBe09 Posted:

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Definitely dont stress it. In the world of LIW, it seems like EVERYTHING should be booked two years before your wedding but if you talk to brides who have never gone on this website, a lot of them book A LOT closer to the actual wedding without having to comprimise on what they want!

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

Definitely dont stress it. In the world of LIW, it seems like EVERYTHING should be booked two years before your wedding but if you talk to brides who have never gone on this website, a lot of them book A LOT closer to the actual wedding without having to comprimise on what they want!



i agree 100%! i think thats the only bad thing about this site... makes u think 'oh i better book now b4 someone takes my photographer!'
little34 Posted:

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you have plenty of time...I know some times this site causes stress because some people seem to have everything done...but go at your own pace...everyone does things at their own time.
Maybe FH and yourself can go at different times to Rhs and vendors and then you can discuss what you think....that way there is not so much stress trying to get your schedules right.

good luck...you really do have plenty of time!!!!
coley1027 Posted:

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i agree with what everyones been saying before. if it wasnt for this site, i probably wouldnt have my rh booked.. but i felt like everyone was almost done with their 09 weddings and i thought id have nothing to choose from! but the truth is we all have plenty of time, some just like to get things done way ahead of time and relax, while others do things at a more moderate pace. i myself have done nothing but book a hall.. and i dont intend to do anything till after the holidays. its just way to hectic right now. but dont stress over it! you have so much time, and youre going to have soooooo many options when your time comes! it will all work out

longislandlibrarian Posted:

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dont stress out you have tons of time just enjoy it!
AugustBridein09 Posted:

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz


Posted by MrsDtoBe09

Definitely dont stress it. In the world of LIW, it seems like EVERYTHING should be booked two years before your wedding but if you talk to brides who have never gone on this website, a lot of them book A LOT closer to the actual wedding without having to comprimise on what they want!



i agree 100%! i think thats the only bad thing about this site... makes u think 'oh i better book now b4 someone takes my photographer!'



I agree 100%. After I book certain vendors, I'm not doing anything until a year before the wedding.
PoppedInASnap Posted:

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TAKE YOUR TIME. Let things come calmly and naturally. Dont overstress or you will hate everything you are doing :(

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