...StRiP cLuBs...

So I am bored so I will just begin throwing out some random topics!!!

How does everyone feel about FH and strip clubs? What about the bachelor parties and how wild we all hear they can get???

I had a discussion a couple years back with the best man about FH's bachelor party and the use of strippers... We agreed that he'll have a stripper, but she will be uhh... on the extra extra large side so it will be more of a joke than sexual!! BM better keep up the end of his bargain or I will murder him!!!

FH isnt into strip clubs in the least bit anyways. But a normal gurl would def be off limits! The sh*t they do at these parties is just nuts! And I would soooo not be down with that!!!

Any thoughts?!?!

Strip clubs and strippers don't bother me. I really don't care if he goes to one for his bachelor party. I've heard some crazy stories about bachelor parties but I trust that my FH wouldn't go that far.

As far as my bachelorette party goes I have no desire to see men strip. I find those male revue shows boring. We will just be going to bars and clubs in Vegas.

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Posted by HotAir

Actually, I like the idea of the fat stripper. It would be hilarious to send one to his hotel room anonymously. I might have to do that!!!

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Isnt that a great idea?!?!... I would die to see FH get smothered in cellulite I think FH is planning on going to Montreal for a bachelor party weekend.. Still a ways off so anything can change, but since when did a bachelor party turn into an entire weekend!?!?

So, my *** decided that I want to do one of those 3 day cruises to the bahamas... (I orginally wanted one of those 1 day cruises to nowhere)But, hey, if he gets a weekend so do I right?!?!

It's always like a competition between FH & I ... I have to outdo him somehow

I dont mind him going to strip clubs for his bach. party....I dont like the idea of the strippers coming to the house (heard way too many horror stories) Im pretty sure they are going to Atlantic City....so hopefully he spends more time in the casino then with boobs in his face

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Posted by HotAir

Actually, I like the idea of the fat stripper. It would be hilarious to send one to his hotel room anonymously. I might have to do that!!!

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love it

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Posted by b2b777

I think there is a huge difference btw going to a strip club and having strippers at home or in a hotel room. From everything I've heard, 'strippers' who do house calls are prostitutes. If FH goes to an upscale strip club I know the strippers arent able to have sex. I trust FH...but I don't want any nasty/dirty strippers all over him either!!

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yeah this is what i was going to say too, there is a big difference between the guys hitting up a strip club and strippers coming to a house to do a show...crazy things happen at the house strip clubs. And yes at upscale strip clubs you can't even touch them, EVEN if you get a lap dance theres alot of restrictions.

I don't mind FH going to a strip club for his bachelor party, like others said if you trust them and they're coming home to you then no need to worry about it. I would even buy Fh a lap dance.

Truly, I could care less about FH going to strip clubs.

A few years back for his 30th bday I went with him to one, sat in the cut, gave him a stack of ones and told him to get at it! I even had to tell him not to be stingy when he tipped them ( I think he was trying to be modest on my behalf ). We still go occasionally as I despise male strip clubs. He brags about that day everytime his friends tell him their girls don't 'allow' them to go to strip clubs

I have a more liberal view than most in regards to this (so i'm told)...but like others have said, ones that are willing to work outside of the club setting usually are scandalous...but I trust him immensely.

That is so funny that this topic is up. My FH and I were talking about that this weekend. He is in a bridal party and they will be going to a strip club and he does not want to go. I am actually the one pushing him to go!!

I have no prblem with him going b/c I know he is coming home to me at night and I trust him. It is all in good fun!

I hope my fh goes to a strip club. it's the typical thing to do. I'm pushing him to go to Vegas even lol. I am given him a pass to do whatever he wants. cause he's marrying me and loves me. let some girl dance on his lap for all I care lol. it's pretty funny being this way fh is totally uninterested in strip clubs.

i'm even pushing for this sat to go to a strip club after a bar for his 30th bday. he doesn't want to though. I bet if I was against it though he'd be more into it.

I really dont know how all of you girls can be so passive about the situation.... For me, there's just something wrong with T&A in your face that arent your fiance's LOL I have no prob with him looking... I've been to strip clubs with him before, not a big deal (he doesnt even like them)... But, when there's actual touching, that's when it steps over the line for me... That's pretty much cheating in my mind...

Just wanted to bring it up and see what others thought... Not looking to battle anyone

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

I really dont know how all of you girls can be so passive about the situation.... For me, there's just something wrong with T&A in your face that arent your fiance's LOL I have no prob with him looking... I've been to strip clubs with him before, not a big deal (he doesnt even like them)... But, when there's actual touching, that's when it steps over the line for me... That's pretty much cheating in my mind...

Just wanted to bring it up and see what others thought... Not looking to battle anyone

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Im not passive - But I just feel there are bigger things to worry about that strippers... I do agree about the touching tho....dance all you want strippers... touch - i will hurt you

that's what i don't agree with. I don't mind him looking cause in the end I am the one that he will be coming home to but I don't like the touching. I too like FalnBill said, will have to hurt someone lol

Oh I would def hurt the b*tch... I've had to contend with drunken chicks touchin my bf in bars/clubs and FH knows how I act... I may be small, but I have no prob tossing you across the room when I'm heated

Now to get at another angle...
Honestly I would hurt my BM's if they brought me to a male strip club and put me up on stage with some dude thats picking me up in his arms and having me bounce on his ****... I have seen some nasty *** pics... I would prob run away Never in a million yrs would I participate in something like that... Hands off completely!!!!!!!

So i think, if I can keep hands off, so can he

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

Oh I would def hurt the b*tch... I've had to contend with drunken chicks touchin my bf in bars/clubs and FH knows how I act... I may be small, but I have no prob tossing you across the room when I'm heated

Now to get at another angle...
Honestly I would hurt my BM's if they brought me to a male strip club and put me up on stage with some dude thats picking me up in his arms and having me bounce on his ****... I have seen some nasty *** pics... I would prob run away Never in a million yrs would I participate in something like that... Hands off completely!!!!!!!

So i think, if I can keep hands off, so can he

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Nope the people planing my party know better than to take me to a male strip club.... i just dont find it attractive at all!

Big Burly men dancing - with just like a g-string, i dunno dosent sit well with me!

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Posted by HotAir

Actually, I like the idea of the fat stripper. It would be hilarious to send one to his hotel room anonymously. I might have to do that!!!

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Thats a fabulous idea!!!