Stripper club?

Just wondering on what others think of the stripper club bachelor or bachelorette party. FH and I had a discussion about this. Told him I don't care if he goes to watch a show but let me find out that someone touched him or that something popped up and we have big problems. I'm sure my brothers would go along and can't see them condoning a lap dance.

What are your thoughts?

My motto if FH wants to go: That's all good. Look but don't touch. He hasn't expressed an interest and wants to just hang at a bar or do a booze cruise or something... so I'm not worried about it.

I don't want a stripper either. I'll play all the penis games you want. I don't want sweaty naked men in front of me that I don't know. It's creepy for me, and a turn off.

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Posted by JoanneAndJustin

My motto if FH wants to go: That's all good. Look but don't touch. He hasn't expressed an interest and wants to just hang at a bar or do a booze cruise or something... so I'm not worried about it.

I don't want a stripper either. I'll play all the penis games you want. I don't want sweaty naked men in front of me that I don't know. It's creepy for me, and a turn off.

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Yeah, he said he'd really like to do a pub crawl in the city if the stripper club doesn't happen (doubt my brothers' wives would let them go). I trust him cause he knows he's not going to find it better anywhere else (his words) I don't trust women. We are just evil sometimes.

I definitely don't want a stripper. Grosses me out. I'd be more interested in a spa day with some drinking.

to add, i don't want a stripper either. i'm not necessarily grossed out by the idea, but i feel that i can't contradict myself about my feelings toward FH and a strip club. What i would really like to do is take a pole dancing class that way I could just do it for FH and, hey, we could both be happy!

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Posted by Goldie39

to add, i don't want a stripper either. i'm not necessarily grossed out by the idea, but i feel that i can't contradict myself about my feelings toward FH and a strip club. What i would really like to do is take a pole dancing class that way I could just do it for FH and, hey, we could both be happy!

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That is such a good idea!!!!

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Posted by Goldie39

to add, i don't want a stripper either. i'm not necessarily grossed out by the idea, but i feel that i can't contradict myself about my feelings toward FH and a strip club. What i would really like to do is take a pole dancing class that way I could just do it for FH and, hey, we could both be happy!

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naughty girl

i don't agree with the stripper. i've heard to many stories about what goes on at bachelor parties so NO THAnKS! don't want one for myself either. I'd rather do something more constructive like drinking or gambling or getting pampered lol

Right - these bachelor parties have turned far from the somewhat innocent 'watching' these days...and as neutral or indifferent our FH's are about being involved, their friends may feel otherwise.

FH has expressed interest in getting a luxury box at a baseball game. Hopefully his friends will recognize that it's his day and think about what he wants to do!

Men look at the stripper thing like 'my last fling while im still single.' I dont know about you girls, but I dont consider my fh single now, nor did i a year ago. I wouldnt want him to go alone w his friends but if he and his friends and me and my friends all went together and made kinda a fun/funny night out of it, it would be ok.

I'd soooo much rather go to the spa though. And he'd sooo much rather go to a sporting event.

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Posted by Goldie39

to add, i don't want a stripper either. i'm not necessarily grossed out by the idea, but i feel that i can't contradict myself about my feelings toward FH and a strip club. What i would really like to do is take a pole dancing class that way I could just do it for FH and, hey, we could both be happy!

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i love that idea!

FH and i both agreed that we didnt want strippers. I went to one when i was 18 and I done. lol once was enough. FH wants to go the hockey hall of fame in canada for a weekend. i trust all the groomsmen so its fine. im not sure what i want

FSIL is having her party in like two weeks. we are going out to dinner, the having a sex to party (they so much fun!) and then out to a bar probably

I trust that FH wouldn't do the stripper thing, this is something he was into when he was younger (long before i met him) and its not something hes into now. And i trust that none of the GM's would suggest it they are all married except for my brother and he would just suggest going to a bar and getting drunk, so i don't think i have to worry about strippers.

As for me, im not into the whole stripper thing. My sister has already talked about doing the totally 80s prom thing and then hanging out in the city or going to atlantic city for the weekend, i trust her enough to plan the whole thing

my fh doesnt like the whole stripper thing but his friends do and sometimes i dont trust his friends. we've discussed the whole bachelor/bacherlorette party thing and we've tossed the idea around of not even having them.
neither of us want strippers and we're not big bar people either

Speaking of Strippers...did you guys see this post on BHB?
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Posted by SummerBride10

I told him if he wants a stripper I'd strip for him...and I mean, whats wrong with that? He can touch and everything for no extra cost!

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FH doesn't go to them but, I did go to one with him once....(a female one) and honestly, unless you leave the main area with a girl, nothing happens. They can't even touch the girls.

When it comes time for his party, I already know his friends are taking him to one. I don't necessarily consider it a 'last fling' because he's smart enough not to do any thing that stupid and throw away 10 years right before we get married and if he did do something, I'm like 'big brother' so, I'd know . I think is just more of a 'last excuse' to be out with him friends and have a blast (within reason), with no questions asked . Listen; I'm going to Vegas for 4 days, so who the heck am I to tell him he can't have a night out with his friends?!

I'm sure having a private party somewhere could be different, but going to an actual club, is fine with me.

i know that FH is definitely going to do the strip club thing for his bachelor party, i don't really care though, because i know he's not gonna like, do anything..

not sure what i'm gonna do for my bachelorette party, but recently went to vegas and for someones bachelorette party and we saw the 'thunder down under' show.. it was a lot of fun! lol maybe its just me.

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Posted by jenny8484

not sure what i'm gonna do for my bachelorette party, but recently went to vegas and for someones bachelorette party and we saw the 'thunder down under' show.. it was a lot of fun! lol maybe its just me.

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Thanks for the idea! I'm gonna let my sister know about this one....she planning the trip (I call her Danny Tanner from Full House; there was an episode where he was planning a family vacation and he was organizing the entire thing w/ a clipboard, lol)

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Posted by FutureMrsF2010

FH doesn't go to them but, I did go to one with him once....(a female one) and honestly, unless you leave the main area with a girl, nothing happens. They can't even touch the girls.

When it comes time for his party, I already know his friends are taking him to one. I don't necessarily consider it a 'last fling' because he's smart enough not to do any thing that stupid and throw away 10 years right before we get married and if he did do something, I'm like 'big brother' so, I'd know . I think is just more of a 'last excuse' to be out with him friends and have a blast (within reason), with no questions asked . Listen; I'm going to Vegas for 4 days, so who the heck am I to tell him he can't have a night out with his friends?!

I'm sure having a private party somewhere could be different, but going to an actual club, is fine with me.

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Yeah, strip club only. I know people who've had private shows at their home and it's not a good thing. Like you said, in the main area there is no touching allowed. I don't have a problem with him going and looking. I know he's coming home to me at the end of the night. Would have an issue if he disappeared behind a curtain though.

So FH & I have talked about this. He will have strippers at his bachelor party and I am ok with it, but no kissing and touching in private areas. Obviously she is gonna touch him but there is a line and he knows it. I totally trust him.

I am having 2 bachelorette parties, one in South Beach with just the bridal party and another in NYC. Both will involve strippers. If FH is gonna go out and party, then I am definitely going all out as well!!!!!!!!! I will certainly NOT sit home and sulk. I am totally living it up!!!!!!