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regy_k Posted: Oct 23, 2009 01:10 PM

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I honestly dont care. he can do whatever he wants for his B-party.

funny: he mentioned to me that his friend wants to fly them out to Vegas the nite before. I was like 'WHAT???? DID YOU SEE HANGOVER???? THEN YOU CANT BE SERIOUS!!!'
I told him that he can do whatever he wants but my only rule is to keep it in the Tri state area LOL

FallBride2010 Posted: Oct 23, 2009 01:11 PM

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I really dont care. If he went weekly, I would think it was an issue. But for the bachelor party-- it is what it is and I dont mind at all

AdriandSteve Posted: Oct 23, 2009 01:32 PM

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eh. I try not to think about it. All I know is that night I will be out w/the girls.

latinaj Posted: Oct 23, 2009 01:34 PM

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i dont care... i trust fh...
imo i have fun at strip clubs lol

Sweetie51804 Posted: Oct 23, 2009 01:49 PM

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NO!!!!

Hoda2010 Posted: Oct 23, 2009 01:50 PM

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I personally do not like strippers and want no part of them or having them come near me. If FH wants to go to a strip club for his bachelor party I don't really care. It is his night to have fun and hang out with the boys. And I know at the end of the night he'll be coming home to me!

cateydee Posted: Oct 23, 2009 01:52 PM

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Posted by grkbarbie

lol its such a trashy thing. but i dont judge lololll

i used to go to them cuz im friends with strip club owners.. and the food is really good. but uhmmm i duno

its not that serious..but i think its a total waste of money.

as far as girls having guys....id be damnnned if i had to pay a guy to wiggle his schlong in my face . gross

where is there good food in a strip club? i've only seen meatballs and gross chicken fingers in buffet racks. nassstyyy

my 2cents: if FH wants to do it, i dont mind. before i thought it was really disrespectful, but now im not going to fight it- let the boy have a lil fun!

funny thing- he said its not up to him, its up to his BM lol- silly boy

soontobecruz Posted: Oct 23, 2009 02:02 PM

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I asked if he was going to see strippers to please go to a strip club. If they throw a house party wth strippers I am a lot less comfortable with that. I think they are skankier. From the stories FH has told me that he has seen... um I am right. I just think a strip club has more security.

And I trust FH 100% but I just idk not comfy with the strippers at home thing. If it happens am I going to be mad at him... no... but idk this is just how I feel

futuremrsjc2010 Posted: Oct 23, 2009 02:32 PM

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IMO I'm not to thrilled about it but I wouldn't tell FH he cant do what he wants for his own BP. If he wants to go to a strip club for his BP then that's fine as long as he doesn't cross the line. We've been to strip clubs separately and we went to one together.

marinai7 Posted: Oct 23, 2009 02:53 PM

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I don't want strippers at my bachelorette party and neither does FH. If his friends brought him to one, I wouldn't be thrilled but it is what it is. I trust him, but strip clubs creep me out.

Sandradv121 Posted: Oct 23, 2009 02:55 PM

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Like Barb, I too am having a combo bachelor/bachelorette party. BRING ON MY MIDGET STRIPPERS!!!

I've been to strip clubs. FH has been. Its not for me and its not for FH, and he's really not turned on by it.

jayepyt Posted: Oct 23, 2009 03:01 PM

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i dont care for them ill leave it as that bc i can go in on that

Michy2009 Posted: Oct 23, 2009 03:30 PM

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I totally dont care that he is having a stripper because I totally trust him, besides he has been looking forward to this since we have been planning the wedding. I know that he does not frequent any strip clubs..so why not let him enjoy this treat...LOL.
I have no problem with him visiting a strip club for his bachelor party, however I would have a problem with the whole stripper/hotel situation.

Alyssa79 Posted: Oct 23, 2009 03:33 PM

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we actually went to our 1st strip club together for a friends bday 2 months ago. i think i was into it more than him and that's not saying much but at least we got to experience it together.

i told him i wouldn't exactly be happy if they were involved with the bachelor party ONLY b/c some of his friends I feel would push 'stuff' on him even though he can make his own decisions.

HurricaneGirl Posted: Oct 23, 2009 03:42 PM

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Posted by grkbarbie

lol not too long ago i was out with my friend and she just looked soo weird. im like whats wrong?
shes like oMG that guy over there was the stripper at so and so's bach party!!! im like nooooo way.!!! i ran up to him and confronted him
strippers are ppl ,too

I was at a bachelorette party and the stripper used to date one a friend of one of the bridesmaids! They all knew each other from high school. It turned out the stripper also used to play basketball w/FH.

AngnShaun Posted: Oct 23, 2009 03:44 PM

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Posted by Alyssa79

we actually went to our 1st strip club together for a friends bday 2 months ago. i think i was into it more than him and that's not saying much but at least we got to experience it together.

i told him i wouldn't exactly be happy if they were involved with the bachelor party ONLY b/c some of his friends I feel would push 'stuff' on him even though he can make his own decisions.

i went to a strip club with FH before we were dating... (there was about 10 of us that went) we were 19 and 20, he actually bought me a lap dance... never been so nervous in my life... some of the girls there were really classy looking, and some ... mmm not so much...

i know his BM is going to get them... and a lot of the guys that are going on the bparty are in my family, and they would never let a stripper do anything that would put fh in a compromising position... so im not really worried

MrsH37 Posted: Oct 23, 2009 10:34 PM

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NOOOO......I say nay!!!!

Thank God FH and all GM aren't really into that stuff. They would all rather go to a concert or a baseball game!!!

Windy Posted: Oct 23, 2009 10:43 PM

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I dont like this! But it's not worth fighting over...

MrsH37 Posted: Oct 23, 2009 11:02 PM

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Posted by Sandradv121

Like Barb, I too am having a combo bachelor/bachelorette party. BRING ON MY MIDGET STRIPPERS!!!

I've been to strip clubs. FH has been. Its not for me and its not for FH, and he's really not turned on by it.

yeah my FH is the same way