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If someone comes to your e party or whatever party it is and doesn't even give you a card (also no gift)... are you suppsoed to send them a TY card??? I had 2 people that did this... not sure what the proper etiquette is... TIA
Good question lol. I'd say hold off incase they just forgot it and send it in the mail or something?
good question..... could you write a card saying thank you for attending our eparty?!?!? I guess you aren't suppose to assume you will receive a gift from everyone even though that is the proper thing to do.
Posted by MeganC715
If someone comes to your e party or whatever party it is and doesn't even give you a card (also no gift)... are you suppsoed to send them a TY card??? I had 2 people that did this... not sure what the proper etiquette is... TIA
Thank you. I'm guessing I will send one saying 'thanks for coming and sharing in our day bla bla bla' But I reaaaally don't want to! I get money is tight for people... but no freakin card annoyed me... sorry if that makes me sound like a horrible person lol
Posted by AwaitingAugust
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etiquette says you're supposed to send a TY regardless of whether they sent a gift or not.
BUT i refused to do that ... if someone didn't have the decency to give me a card (i don't care about the gift, just the card), then they don't deserve a TY. i guess i'm passive aggressive
Posted by wishingwell1230
Posted by AwaitingAugust
crashing ...
etiquette says you're supposed to send a TY regardless of whether they sent a gift or not.
BUT i refused to do that ... if someone didn't have the decency to give me a card (i don't care about the gift, just the card), then they don't deserve a TY. i guess i'm passive aggressive
What if they already sent or gave you a card when you actually got engaged?? Most of my close family and friends (ie the ones invited to e-party) I already got a card from!
Posted by AwaitingAugust
crashing ...
etiquette says you're supposed to send a TY regardless of whether they sent a gift or not.
BUT i refused to do that ... if someone didn't have the decency to give me a card (i don't care about the gift, just the card), then they don't deserve a TY. i guess i'm passive aggressive
Posted by MeganC715
Thank you. I'm guessing I will send one saying 'thanks for coming and sharing in our day bla bla bla' But I reaaaally don't want to! I get money is tight for people... but no freakin card annoyed me... sorry if that makes me sound like a horrible person lol
I sent everyone TY's... even the people who couldnt manage to pick up a 99 cent card from hallmark... and yes, it was against my will!
We did - its only proper. Espec an e-party where gifts are NOT required. I think it would be rude to not send a thank you - we had 1 or 2 who didn't give a card/gift and we just said 'thanks so much for being there for us!'
Posted by roblisa09
Posted by wishingwell1230
Posted by AwaitingAugust
crashing ...
etiquette says you're supposed to send a TY regardless of whether they sent a gift or not.
BUT i refused to do that ... if someone didn't have the decency to give me a card (i don't care about the gift, just the card), then they don't deserve a TY. i guess i'm passive aggressive
What if they already sent or gave you a card when you actually got engaged?? Most of my close family and friends (ie the ones invited to e-party) I already got a card from!
WOW!!!! I only received ONE card saying congrats!!! LOL! I guess you're blessed =)
I didn't send them TY's.
i would have sent a thank you for for attending whatever party you are having.
Posted by AwaitingAugust
crashing ...
etiquette says you're supposed to send a TY regardless of whether they sent a gift or not.
BUT i refused to do that ... if someone didn't have the decency to give me a card (i don't care about the gift, just the card), then they don't deserve a TY. i guess i'm passive aggressive
If you have extra cards and feel like being nice and proper, then yes! lol...
This happened to us and we sent a thank you for being there to celebrate
Yes I sent out Thank You Cards anyway. I think it is polite to say thanks for coming and celebrating the day.
