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SUPER CONFUSED!!!

EverlovingEv Posted:

SUPER CONFUSED!!!

Please answer the following:

1) Today I'm asking a friend to be my Bridesmaid and wondering if there are 'will you be my bridesmaid' cards available for sale or I have to make mine?

2) Am I supposed to give her a gift when I ask her to be my BM or do I give her the gift sometime later....like the day of?

Thanks girlies
I really should have thought about this before
afrodyt2000 Posted:

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They have will you be my bridesmaid cards, check places like ebay, exclusivelyweddings.com, places that sell BM and BP gifts usually have them. I don't think you need to give a gift when you ask.

Fiance26 Posted:

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I just asked my girls. I didnt do anything special for them.

EverlovingEv Posted:

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Posted by afrodyt2000

They have will you be my bridesmaid cards, check places like ebay, exclusivelyweddings.com, places that sell BM and BP gifts usually have them. I don't think you need to give a gift when you ask.



I'd love to order something online but I need this by today! I really shouldn't have waited this long
RudysMom Posted:

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I don't think you're going to be able to find those cards in a sotre today - you'd have to order them online or make them. I gave them little gifts but you definitely don't have too. T

TLC1018 Posted:

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I made my own cards....I did not give them a gift then though..

lisalisa27 Posted:

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Posted by Fiance26

I just asked my girls. I didnt do anything special for them.



Me too. I will wait until the RD to give gifts.
HenryAlba07 Posted:

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Posted by Fiance26

I just asked my girls. I didnt do anything special for them.



Ditto.
hayleyandsteve Posted:

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I gave them small gifts....

a necklace with a starfish frmo banana republic (to go with our beachy theme) and tank tops that say 'bridesmaid' or 'maid of honor'...

a gift definitely isn't necessary at this point! you can also just get a blank card and write something cute in it.... like you know they have those adorable black and white cards that are blank inside
Athee07 Posted:

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seriously this is all i did to make my will be you bm cards


go to michaels get one of those scrapbooking papers fold it in four and then go to the scrapbooking section and get bridesmaid dresses- or something that looks like bm dresses and write a cute poem inside and u are done

fast and easy

also, i did buy them all a gift- i went to party city and they had blush bears wearing a pink bm dress , and i also bought them VS PINK underwear
cmrcmr0430 Posted:

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The answer to the first question:
Check exclusivelyweddings.com and invitationsbydawn.com...
The answer for your second queston:
I didn't give my BM any gifts when I asked them, I am giving them gifts at the RD...
kitty1224 Posted:

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I think that Fortunoff in the registry department might have something like that. I do not remember if the were 'thank you for being a BM' or 'Will u be a BM'

Mrs_C_in_'07 Posted:

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Posted by Fiance26

I just asked my girls. I didnt do anything special for them.



Same here.
PegaLega Posted:

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I just asked, no card-no gift.
I am giving them their gifts later at the RD
babygirl71777 Posted:

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Posted by Fiance26

I just asked my girls. I didnt do anything special for them.



Me to
mbg1007 Posted:

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There are stores that def sell those cards, you can try cedarhurst paper. If you live in the city, the store Wedding Things on 3rd (right by Bloomies) sells them. Etcetra might also, they have a store on 72nd on either 2nd or 3rd and another store at 33rd and 3rd.

Mooshyboo Posted:

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Hi I saw BM cards on the internet Jean M Weddings or you can make your oqn @ Michaels & AC moore have some good things to use. I made mine... you can give your BM a gift now to ask her ~ something sentimental (I gave my girls a scrapbook with our picture on the front of it of my FH and me when we first met...) the gift to ask them is optional... then you give them a gift to Thank them at the end @ the rehersal or make a special day or a special lunch for your bridesmaids....
good luck!
Mooshyboo Posted:

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I tried sending the pictures but my file must be to large the pictures are in my album!
milana Posted:

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Posted by PegaLega

I just asked, no card-no gift.
I am giving them their gifts later at the RD



ditto.
sunflower13 Posted:

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I am sure this isn't going to help you because it is so late...I saw the same Will you be my bridesmaids? cards I used in Papyrus.If you get this in time I would check there. Oh, P.S. I didn't give my girls a gift, I am saving it for the RD.

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