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Surprise RSVPs

Tomsbride Posted:

Surprise RSVPs

Anyone else get these? I got two NO rsvps from girls who who went to my shower and are going to my bach party. I'm not as upset that they're not going as I am suprised they didn't tell me they weren't going ahead of time. Like, you went to the shower so I assumed you were coming to the wedding. No explination on the rsvp card either. SO BIZZAR!
IrishAli Posted:

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That is weird

SoonToBeEMM Posted:

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i had one of those too. A girl i worked with at my old job (i didnt even quit a year ago) and we remained close, talk on the phone, text message. She knows when our wedding is and i just got her rsvp replying no. I a not upset she cant come but im surprised she didnt tell me why or before hand. Thats so weird to me.

Tomsbride Posted:

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Maybe people are acared if their reason is money, etc. I have no idea but it's so strange. If you talk you should explain to someone before you rsvp or at least on the card. Go beyond just checking off the box.

dunnkat Posted:

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I have had a few of these too. I think its so weird they just checked no with no explanation or anything. We also had people we knew would not be able to come surprise us with nice cards and checks/gifts.

futuremrstaheri Posted:

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I've had a couple people we thouhgt would be coming to the wedding and aren't. Also had one (A family frined who lives in New Orleans) who we didn't think is coming but she is! Guess it eventually evens out.

ImgonnabeMrsC Posted:

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weird. we havent had any BIG surprises, one of FH's best friends though, his wife is due to have a baby this week/early next so its totally understandable!

rosatemp Posted:

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that is strange....maybe you should ask them

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