surprise shower!

me!

They threw me off I thought it would be on a Saturday...it was on a sunday

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Posted by chilly313

I am not supposed to know when mine is, but I do. And its not until a month before the wedding (for a lot of reasons that make sense, so no biggie), so I have a while to go. What I can't decide is whether I should let anyone know that I know, or just pretend to be surprised. I am not good at the 'fake surprise' but I know MOH and others will be disappointed if they know I know.

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PRETEND! they will feel bad if they find out you know. tell them in a few months after the wedding. how did you figure it out detective???

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Posted by FDNYwife1029

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Posted by chilly313

I am not supposed to know when mine is, but I do. And its not until a month before the wedding (for a lot of reasons that make sense, so no biggie), so I have a while to go. What I can't decide is whether I should let anyone know that I know, or just pretend to be surprised. I am not good at the 'fake surprise' but I know MOH and others will be disappointed if they know I know.

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PRETEND! they will feel bad if they find out you know. tell them in a few months after the wedding. how did you figure it out detective???

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I knew it had to be in September because of a few different things. I was looking through FH's date book (he writes everything down or else he'll forget where he's supposed to be ) because we were trying to plan a weekend away, and there's a big giant X through one date (I'm sure he totally forgot that I might see the X). So, not really rocket science, just put two and two together. I don't know what they are going to tell me about where I'm going, so if I don't say anything, do I just get dressed up that day anyway? And have FH asking why?

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Posted by FDNYwife1029

My shower didn't happen yet. It's a surprise. I am sooooo nervous, I don't wanna look like crap!

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I totally understand. I was afraid of that too. But now that I know, but i'm not supposed to, I guess I'll just have to get dressed up that day and pretend anyway that it was a surprise

You could just make sure you have a change of clothes and makeup in your bag with you all the time (or give it to someone to bring with them for you). Hopefully, whatever they tell you to get you there will be something that you would get dressed up for anyway.

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Posted by chilly313

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Posted by FDNYwife1029

My shower didn't happen yet. It's a surprise. I am sooooo nervous, I don't wanna look like crap!

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I totally understand. I was afraid of that too. But now that I know, but i'm not supposed to, I guess I'll just have to get dressed up that day and pretend anyway that it was a surprise

You could just make sure you have a change of clothes and makeup in your bag with you all the time (or give it to someone to bring with them for you). Hopefully, whatever they tell you to get you there will be something that you would get dressed up for anyway.

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Well I heard that you are supposed to give your MOH a change of clothes & she is supposed to bring it the day of. But I am just more concerned about hair & face. lol. i would like to look decent. it would suck if i had a pretty dress & my hair wasnt looking too good. LOL I will have to have kick a$$ hair done at all times in the next few months. i wish i just had some idea..

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Posted by FDNYwife1029

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Posted by chilly313

I am not supposed to know when mine is, but I do. And its not until a month before the wedding (for a lot of reasons that make sense, so no biggie), so I have a while to go. What I can't decide is whether I should let anyone know that I know, or just pretend to be surprised. I am not good at the 'fake surprise' but I know MOH and others will be disappointed if they know I know.

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PRETEND! they will feel bad if they find out you know. tell them in a few months after the wedding. how did you figure it out detective???

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ITA!! Fake it