Ok so I went already to pick the menu. The BM Barbara kinda made me upset when I asked her if I could do the candle place cards she said no.... She just wasnt very friendly. My mom asked asked about a salad at the cocktail hour and she like ripped her head off and said we don't do that here we have salad before dinner (which is what I said) but my parents are paying a lot of money she could have just done that to make her happy! When it got time for the cake I said I wanted a stacked Square cake what i really wanted was a stacked square stacks on sideways (does that make sense) I didnt want to say anything cause I didnt want to be a pain in the Arse! I left got home an realized that she didnt even shows us any pictures of the cake. I have no Idea what it will look like what it will be decorated like nothing. no I am going to call up my florist and see if she can get flowers for it. Does anyone know what it will look like? Will it just be plain any pictures?
sandj100304
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My sister was married there last year and had a round cake. Here are some pics of it. Hope it helps a little.
By the way, don't worry. They did an amazing job. Barbara was my sisters BM and she was harsh but very good at handling everything. You are in good hands!
Personally if you feel uncomfortable with the way the meeting was handled, you need to make another appointment, march back in there with a list of questions and get some satisfactory answers and amenities. You are paying how many tens of thousands of dollars to this hall and you are afraid of being a pain tn the arse? Uh-uh, NO WAY ... they should be afraid ...
I dont know exactly what you mean by stacked sideways but I think you really should sleep on it and write down all the things you have questions about and go back. Maybe bring a picture of what you want. And if she is being too rude, then maybe ask to speak to a manager or something. Good luck!
Pookiesangel
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Wow, I have Barbara too, and she's been soo sweet to us, when we changed the rooms I must have called her like 1/2 dozen times and she was pretty good about it. But she does seem like she can be a tough cookie too..lol
My cousin's cake was squared but not off center like you want yours.. I'd take a picture to them to show them, or you might not get what you want.. ya know..
OctBride05
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you should go back and show her a picture of how you want the cake. it's your day and your spending all this money, you should get what you want.
tourist
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by stacked sideway, do you mean rotated, so the corners don't line up?
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Posted by tourist
by stacked sideway, do you mean rotated, so the corners don't line up?
Yup, that's what she means..
june262004
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by stacked sideway, do you mean rotated, so the corners don't line up?
Yup thats it Jenn. i guess I can call. I feel like a pain the Arse!
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Yup thats it Jenn. i guess I can call. I feel like a pain the Arse!
No way, it's your day.. and I'm sure they have dealt with worse..ya know.. We are paying alot of money.. it may not be Oheka castle prices.. but that's not the point
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Posted by june262004
Yup thats it Jenn. i guess I can call. I feel like a pain the Arse!
No way, it's your day.. and I'm sure they have dealt with worse..ya know.. We are paying alot of money.. it may not be Oheka castle prices.. but that's not the point
LOL very true.
tourist
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How hard could that be? they just turn them a little before they stack them!
show her a picture! and then pelt her with berries untill she obeys!
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show her a picture! and then pelt her with berries untill she obeys!
Ohhhhh, I like that idea!!!!
june262004
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Posted by tourist
show her a picture! and then pelt her with berries untill she obeys!
Ohhhhh, I like that idea!!!!
Pookiesangel
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Now that's funny...
Janine24
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Just to make you feel better... I met w/ barbara a whle ago and she was so nice to us... she was so happy and helpful... maybe she was just having a bad day...
