FH gets a message on facebook from a friend of ours who a few months ago invited himself and his gf to our wedding. we didnt send them an invitation, they werent originally on the list and we're tight on space. anyway, he gets this facebook message today:
'hey man, i dont mean to be like w t f, but w t f do you need my new address? i moved to west babylon and i need an invitation so i know when and where the wedding is'
SummerBride10
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thats not even awkward...thats just rude!
flibbertigibbet
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i'd expect this from a caddy bizitch but not a guy.
moron.
jesca
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we dont even know how to respond. backstory, we were all really tight, then he up and disappeared for like, two years, only started hanging out again this past december. its also extra awkward bc him and one of my bffs/bm's had a little thing.
soontobecruz
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wow that's just rude!
jesca
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wow that's just rude!
i'm hoping bc he's a guy he just doesnt know that its that rude? i mean, friends of FH's had to tell people they arent invited to his bachelor party bc people were inviting themselves.
MrsSx2
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whoaaaaa what are you guys gonna do?
slyman1101
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psyco!!! but it sounds like they really really want to come. if you dont invite them, it sounds like you may end up having a fight on your hands or some hurt feelings. if you want to keep the peace and keep them around as friends you may want to just send them an invite.. depends on how much you like them! haha
angelscri
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Some people have such nerve
jesca
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Posted by slyman1101
psyco!!! but it sounds like they really really want to come. if you dont invite them, it sounds like you may end up having a fight on your hands or some hurt feelings. if you want to keep the peace and keep them around as friends you may want to just send them an invite.. depends on how much you like them! haha
well, so far we havent gotten any no's from friends. and frankly, idk if i really want him there, but now its just so uncomfortable. we dont know what FH should write back...
Suzie4
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people are so rude...
LovinMichael44
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That's definitely kinda rude!!!
Lucky2010
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Do you hang out with him often? Honestly, there's no good answer here. Either you ignore it altogether or you tell him what's what - sorry you're not invited. No matter how you slice it, he's gonna be pissed and will probably never realize how rude he was being.
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wow thats weird, I think it needs to be addressed immediately - either invite them or tell ur FH to let them know they are not invited and be prepared to lose the friendship b/c it sounds like this fellow would be more than mildly offended...
GR2010
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You have got to be kidding me....
cateydee
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i'd give him the same line i've been giving my coworkers since i got engaged. we are planning a small wedding and since we are paying for it ourselves money's really tight.
honestly since this guy has been so straight up, he deserves for your FH to be straight up with him. whether he likes the answer or not.
