Do you send a thank you to someone who attended your wedding and did not give a gift?
I don't even care about a gift but you can't at least give a card?
Watermelon5
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i was told that everyone gets a thank you regardless
i had ppl come to our e-party and not bring a card or anything (not that it matters just saying) and we sent everyoneeee a thank you even if it just said 'your presence made our day that much more special' or something lol
hth!
spdy540
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Posted by Watermelon5
i was told that everyone gets a thank you regardless
i had ppl come to our e-party and not bring a card or anything (not that it matters just saying) and we sent everyoneeee a thank you even if it just said 'your presence made our day that much more special' or something lol
hth!
I was told the same thing. I didn't think I should send a card when they couldn't but its proper etiquette
CantWaitMrsH
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technically they have up to a year to give you a gift so it may be in the making! i would definitely send a thank you regardless
MR1223
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we only had 2 people who didnt give us a gift or card... and we still sent them thank you cards. basically just saying thanks for celebrating with us (they were from out of state, so they put the expense into traveling).
annabellagirl
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wait.... hold up!!!!
YOU MEAN TO TELL ME.... people actually showed up with NOTHING???
Are you sure it wasn't lost??
I have never in my life heard of anyone attending a wedding and NOT giving a card! I know times are tough these days, but thats just so wrong!
If you can't afford a $3.99 card, you shouldn't be going to the wedding!!!!
EEEK
5272012
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Ya, thats pretty terrible. I get not being able to give a gift..but not even a card?
Anyways to answer your question, I believe yes you have to give a card thanking them for coming!
annabellagirl
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Posted by 5272012
Ya, thats pretty terrible. I get not being able to give a gift..but not even a card?
Anyways to answer your question, I believe yes you have to give a card thanking them for coming!
wow that sux... LOL
i dont mean to sound like really stupid - but if anyone did that to me, i would be really pist! i would call and say 'oh i noticed that we never got a card from you, just making sure it wasnt lost'
Thats just BALLSY! lol
jackieee
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I'm giving a Thank You to everyone. We had only two guests who didn't give a card (I think). One said they were going to mail it to us, but never did.
I'm still going to send a thank you card for coming to the wedding.
Yankeeelove
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Wow that's just terrible! I would NEVER do that to someone! I would be so upset. I'm sorry.
krystalle
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Thanks ladies! We had a family of five (all adults 40 and over) and not one of them gave a card.
We also had another person who didn't as well so a total of 6!
It is not the gift that bothers me, it is the fact that they couldn't give a card. So now I have to spend more money to send a thank you for taking up space and for giving a free dinner/drinks/and entertainment.
I may sound like a real b*tch and I shouldn't care but unfortunately I do.
FutureJOC
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Yeah I think you have tob send one to anyone who attended (whether you received a gift or not).
AmyElizabeth
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One of my recently married coworkers said the was shocked at how many people didn't give a gift or a card. I'm expecting the worst
bella_bride
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You should still send a card. This happened to us at our eparty with one guest, but he actually told us times are hard for him and we COMPLETELY understood.
