Thank you cards?

Thank you cards?

My MOH just called to tell me she can help me write the thank you cards for bridal shower. I didn't know you can have someone else write it for you. What is the etiquette? She even offered to write the wedding thank you cards. I thought it has to be written by the bride. I feel bad turning her down. Should I let her? She is a lefty, and her handwriting is completely different than mine.

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let her help, but people that are close to you you should write yourself. no one is going 2 examine the thank you cards to see if u wrote them or not.

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I dont really like that idea...I dont know how I'd feel about getting a thank you card written by someone else. Its kind of seems like its not from the heart, kwim?

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I wouldn't have her help write the notes themselves but she could do the envelopes, or a message you want written in all of the cards and you do the personalized part...

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What a doll for offering!!

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i don't think its appropriate. It's nice of her to offer and help you out, but the fact that you yourself said you aren't sure about it, speaks volumes. I'd politely decline.

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it's totally your preference but i think it should come from you. it is nice to know that your moh is really supportive, but some things should just be left up for the bride to handle.

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Thats a really great offer, but I would do them yourself if I were you (IMO).. I did all mine myself for over 70 ppl and it took forever but I got it done in a week or so.. I would ask her to help stamp & stuff envelopes.

BTW: You have a great MOH for offering that!