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aww im sorry this is happening to you... its not your fault, you both have a wedding planned, its not like you sprung this on him recently...

what is it exactly you need him to do???

Oh I am so sorry. Hopefully he won't make any impulsive decisions and will take a deep breath, think about it and will find a way to make it work. It is really crazy how this wedding planning is literally a fulltime job.

Good luck. I hope everything works out.