thanks ladies

hang in there. I am sure it is very difficult from far away. Heck it is hard sometimes even living close by.

It will all work out.

First of all, let me say that I think the dress you choose is very nice! It's conservative and yet still pretty. They have seen the pic online, right?

Just remember, It's your day!!!! Don't let them make you feel bad about choosing a dress that you like.

Aside from my other question, they need to realize that it's an honor to be asked to be part of a BP and that when they accepted that honor, there are certain things that they need to do.

Going for a couple of fittings and to find shoes is really not that much of a difficulty.

And your BM dress is very pretty, by the way.

The dress is very nice and I think it would look great in purple!

They'll get over it. Don't let their harsh words take a toll on you because it doesn't mean anything. It'll be their own problem if they think they look like barney (they won't) and if they don't go for fittings soon, they'll be rushing like idiots and it'll be their own fault.

Just let everything roll off your back!

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Posted by kris_gets_hitched

I'm a little confused. The dresses were ordered but none of them tried it on?

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No, they didn't. I had to chose something and I showed them a few styles and they were supposed to get together and figure out which they liked but no one went and now they are complaining. I had to take my daughter into all these bridal salons by myself (1 year old) so its not easy showpping with her wen she wants to run everywhere. I did give them the opportunity even after I chose this dress and no one responded. I feel like jut crying.

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Posted by elp6421

First of all, let me say that I think the dress you choose is very nice! It's conservative and yet still pretty. They have seen the pic online, right?

Just remember, It's your day!!!! Don't let them make you feel bad about choosing a dress that you like.

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Thanks Erika!!! I did send it to them and no one responded. I'm sure youcan relate cause we both are planning from FL.

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Posted by MrsDR2010

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Posted by kris_gets_hitched

I'm a little confused. The dresses were ordered but none of them tried it on?

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No, they didn't. I had to chose something and I showed them a few styles and they were supposed to get together and figure out which they liked but no one went and now they are complaining. I had to take my daughter into all these bridal salons by myself (1 year old) so its not easy showpping with her wen she wants to run everywhere. I did give them the opportunity even after I chose this dress and no one responded. I feel like jut crying.

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You gave them time and opportunity to speak up. I think maybe at this point you may have to have a heart-to-heart phone chat with each of these girls and snap them into shape.

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Posted by kris_gets_hitched

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Posted by MrsDR2010

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Posted by kris_gets_hitched

I'm a little confused. The dresses were ordered but none of them tried it on?

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No, they didn't. I had to chose something and I showed them a few styles and they were supposed to get together and figure out which they liked but no one went and now they are complaining. I had to take my daughter into all these bridal salons by myself (1 year old) so its not easy showpping with her wen she wants to run everywhere. I did give them the opportunity even after I chose this dress and no one responded. I feel like jut crying.

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You gave them time and opportunity to speak up. I think maybe at this point you may have to have a heart-to-heart phone chat with each of these girls and snap them into shape.

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I am going to have to try this. Thanks hun!!

Ugh!! I know how u feel Sheena!! BP can be such biotches!! I had the same kinda f'ing dilemma with my BP!! Such a pain in the a$$!! My MOH was cursing me for choosing aqua/tiffany blue dresses and said why did i choose such a difficult colour!!

The dress looks fine!! People are just damn difficult to deal with because it's not their wedding and they don't give a fcuk!! You have to just breathe!!!

It's like I always tell Kamai ' People only care when it's their own things they are dealing with ,'

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Posted by Noelsgirl

Ugh!! I know how u feel Sheena!! BP can be such biotches!! I had the same kinda f'ing dilemma with my BP!! Such a pain in the a$$!! My MOH was cursing me for choosing aqua/tiffany blue dresses and said why did i choose such a difficult colour!!

The dress looks fine!! People are just damn difficult to deal with because it's not their wedding and they don't give a fcuk!! You have to just breathe!!!

It's like I always tell Kamai ' People only care when it's their own things they are dealing with ,'

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Thanks Sanjay!!! They are being real b**ches. I actually changed my color partly for thatsame reason. She was my MOH and they changed to a BM. She complained about the color not going well with her complexion. WTH..I'm darke than her and it looked fab on me. She said the dress will only look good on my other BFF because she is very light. That was like the dumbest thing ever but then I saw the Kardashian wedding and knew I wanted a purple wedding. I tried. I am just to the point of calling them all and telling them that I'd rather not have a BP if they hadn't bought their dresses I def. would have.

i know exactly how you feel. I have 8 girls in my BP and it was one of the biggest mistakes I made. Some of them really dont have any common sense or manners when it comes to realizing that this is our wedding!
They really dont know how to support the bride but instead only care about themselves and if I knew this is how they would have acted before hand, i would have never included them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anyways hun, hang in there, you are close

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Posted by luvly73

i know exactly how you feel. I have 8 girls in my BP and it was one of the biggest mistakes I made. Some of them really dont have any common sense or manners when it comes to realizing that this is our wedding!
They really dont know how to support the bride but instead only care about themselves and if I knew this is how they would have acted before hand, i would have never included them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anyways hun, hang in there, you are close

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It really does su*ks. They are so inconsiderate. I told my BM that its my wedding and she didn't even respond to the text when I said it was my wedding.