Thats it. I'm through planning my wedding

I have 2 months to go and I've decided to stop planning. Whatever doesnt get done after this point just wont get done. Vendors wont communicate, people dont do what I ask them to, people dont return emails, FH isnt doing much of anything. I just looked at this 2 page list of things that still need to be done, and I refuse to do any of it! So my wedding will be without favors and placecards, my dress won't fit, and a million other things wont get done.

Ok, having a bad night. Hopefully will feel better in the morning.

Ok...vent's over...get some sleep, talk to FH and BP they are there to HELP you. Give everyone little tasks to do and start checking things off that list girl!

Feel better!

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Posted by Collette

Ok...vent's over...get some sleep, talk to FH and BP they are there to HELP you. Give everyone little tasks to do and start checking things off that list girl!

Feel better!

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Tee hee hee...I feel better already!

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Posted by roan126

I have 2 months to go and I've decided to stop planning. Whatever doesnt get done after this point just wont get done. Vendors wont communicate, people dont do what I ask them to, people dont return emails, FH isnt doing much of anything. I just looked at this 2 page list of things that still need to be done, and I refuse to do any of it! So my wedding will be without favors and placecards, my dress won't fit, and a million other things wont get done.

Ok, having a bad night. Hopefully will feel better in the morning.

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hmmm .. ok.

u need to get some rest.. and a breather, and step away from the planning BRIEFLY . .and then YELL at FH and DEMAND HIM to help you out with the rest of your duties.. good luck

I'm sure everything is getting overwhelming especially if people aren't cooperating. Talk to FH and maybe he can help you out with some of the things on your list. Good luck! Anytime you need to vent....here is the place to do it....we all understand and are here to support you!

Just get some rest hun...thatsbeen like the last 3 months for me!

What gets done will get done...we just have to accept things for the way they are...if the bp isnt helpful or ppl arent returning emails, dont rely on them for help and save yourself the stress.

As for vendors, I like the just go down there approach, or emailing and calling on mondays and tuesdays when there are no weddings.

Just breathe, and always react positive...oops oh well and move on.....

its all how we choose to react to things and itll help in the long run, bc we can only control ourselves.

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Posted by roan126

I have 2 months to go and I've decided to stop planning. Whatever doesnt get done after this point just wont get done. Vendors wont communicate, people dont do what I ask them to, people dont return emails, FH isnt doing much of anything. I just looked at this 2 page list of things that still need to be done, and I refuse to do any of it! So my wedding will be without favors and placecards, my dress won't fit, and a million other things wont get done.

Ok, having a bad night. Hopefully will feel better in the morning.

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09'er crashing...I love this girl!! You're great! It's nice to know what I'm in for, and the support that you girls give each other!! I'm sure you'll feel better in the morning!! Good luck!! Silly piece of advice: You can eat an elephant, but only one bite at a time!!

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Posted by roan126

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Posted by Collette

Ok...vent's over...get some sleep, talk to FH and BP they are there to HELP you. Give everyone little tasks to do and start checking things off that list girl!

Feel better!

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Tee hee hee...I feel better already!

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good!! it will get better, i think we've all gone through feeling like this.

hope tomorrow is a happier day!

i feel the same way-so done with this.

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Posted by Princess Cut Bride

I'm sure everything is getting overwhelming especially if people aren't cooperating. Talk to FH and maybe he can help you out with some of the things on your list. Good luck! Anytime you need to vent....here is the place to do it....we all understand and are here to support you!

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I like to complain about FH, but the truth is he really isnt all that bad. He usually will do what I tell him to do; problem is I'm a HUGE control freak and NEED to do everything myself. And then I play the martyr...'I'm doing everythig myself, no one is helping me....' hence my breakdown last night

i think a break is good sometimes....Take a week off then ask for some help and take it from there...

I think you need to sit and and have a heatr to heart with FH

it will probably make you feel better...

hun you needed to get that out you will feel much better! Take a break from things and hopefully your vendors/people will come around and be more responsive for you

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Posted by mandab

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Posted by roan126

I have 2 months to go and I've decided to stop planning. Whatever doesnt get done after this point just wont get done. Vendors wont communicate, people dont do what I ask them to, people dont return emails, FH isnt doing much of anything. I just looked at this 2 page list of things that still need to be done, and I refuse to do any of it! So my wedding will be without favors and placecards, my dress won't fit, and a million other things wont get done.

Ok, having a bad night. Hopefully will feel better in the morning.

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09'er crashing...I love this girl!! You're great! It's nice to know what I'm in for, and the support that you girls give each other!! I'm sure you'll feel better in the morning!! Good luck!! Silly piece of advice: You can eat an elephant, but only one bite at a time!!

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Mmmm...I just had elephant for breakfast. Yum!

good vent