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The cat is out of the bag...

Original post by Ang&Rich

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Well, I just had the opportunity to find out how amazing and caring people can be. I wasn't supposed to know - but secrets are hard to keep. I don't want to make a big deal of this for those who did not know but for those of you who were - words could never express my appreciatation for your kindness. You know who you are.

But - I would be too uncomfortable to partake in this. It would be completely unfair. You're all planning for your weddings and it would kill me for you to spend your time and resources on me like that. If I had known I would not have allowed it. If it can't be done for everyone then it cannot be done for me.

I have no idea what has been said in regard to this and I admit I am very embarrassed.

I am afraid this won't come out the way it sounds in my heart so let me try to be clear. Your one good intention has meant so much to me...words could never express how I feel. You barely know me yet you are willing to do something so very kind. You all mean so much to me...EVERYONE! This is by far one of the kindest things anyone has ever done for me.

I truly apologize for posting like this. I wish I had everyone's usernames to FM but I don't and I do want to thank you. For those people that this confuses - I am so sorry. Yet another weird thing for the day. I really don't want to draw too much attention to this but I know by posting I have - and that is my responsibility. I am sorry.

FLaCaTaCa Thread views: 2,528

Re: The cat is out of the bag...

Posted by OctBride05

Posted by divabride

Ang dont apologize. Im not sure if you know this, but this has been in the works for a while now, and a lot of brides that feel they were left out dont understand that they werent even members yet. I tried to explain this before, but people will take it to heart anyway.

i'm not trying to start anything, but i've been a member for years, why wasn't i included?

this is why i barely post because everyone has there 'cliques' that exclude people.

Editted.

NickyBlythe Thread views: 2,528

Re: The cat is out of the bag...

I think you need to remember that this is a public message board.

CubanBride Thread views: 2,528

Re: The cat is out of the bag...

Posted by FLaCaTaCa

Posted by OctBride05

Posted by divabride

Ang dont apologize. Im not sure if you know this, but this has been in the works for a while now, and a lot of brides that feel they were left out dont understand that they werent even members yet. I tried to explain this before, but people will take it to heart anyway.

i'm not trying to start anything, but i've been a member for years, why wasn't i included?

this is why i barely post because everyone has there 'cliques' that exclude people.

THIS IS NOT WHAT IT WAS!!!!!!!

WHY CAN'T EVERYONE JUST MOVE ON! IF YOU DON'T GET IT....THERE IS A REASON!!!

ANG SAID SOMETHING NICE AND PEOPLE ARE STILL BEING RUDE!!! Shhhheeeesssshhh!!
What has happened here girls?

I don't think Oct05bride's comments were directed to Ang.

Ang&Rich Thread views: 2,528

Re: The cat is out of the bag...

FLaCaTaCa Thread views: 2,528

Re: The cat is out of the bag...

I am with you Ang! Happy Vibes!!!! WE LOVE YOU!!!

Happybride2005 Thread views: 2,528

Re: The cat is out of the bag...

Posted by Ang&Rich

back to you ang!!!!!

divabride Thread views: 2,528

Re: The cat is out of the bag...

Yes we do love you ang, and its sad that a post that was meant for well intentions ended up getting twisted.

Ang&Rich Thread views: 2,528

Re: The cat is out of the bag...

Maybe we can have Ron make this post self destruct too?

OctBride05 Thread views: 2,528

Re: The cat is out of the bag...

Posted by CubanBride

Posted by FLaCaTaCa

Posted by OctBride05

Posted by divabride

Ang dont apologize. Im not sure if you know this, but this has been in the works for a while now, and a lot of brides that feel they were left out dont understand that they werent even members yet. I tried to explain this before, but people will take it to heart anyway.

i'm not trying to start anything, but i've been a member for years, why wasn't i included?

this is why i barely post because everyone has there 'cliques' that exclude people.

THIS IS NOT WHAT IT WAS!!!!!!!

WHY CAN'T EVERYONE JUST MOVE ON! IF YOU DON'T GET IT....THERE IS A REASON!!!

ANG SAID SOMETHING NICE AND PEOPLE ARE STILL BEING RUDE!!! Shhhheeeesssshhh!!
What has happened here girls?

I don't think Oct05bride's comments were directed to Ang.

thank you. they weren't directed towards anyone in particular

buckles Thread views: 2,528

Re: The cat is out of the bag...

Posted by Soon2bMsZ

Posted by neesiepie

Awww, man...and here I was waiting for my FM with further details on what to do! I had my creative juices flowing and everything...

ewww,.....that sounded gross.

Oh well....I still wanna do it!

Im with her!!

Ang, you really deserve something special such as this.

Pookiesangel Thread views: 2,528

Re: The cat is out of the bag...

Posted by Soon2bMsZ

Posted by neesiepie

Awww, man...and here I was waiting for my FM with further details on what to do! I had my creative juices flowing and everything...

ewww,.....that sounded gross.

Oh well....I still wanna do it!

Im with her!!

Exactly how I feel!

Ang&Rich Thread views: 2,528

Re: The cat is out of the bag...

Buckles!!! I was just looking at your pic from the GTG at Applebees!!!

I'm going to make some scrapbook pages of the two GTGs we had in October - I'll post them for eveyone to see once they are done!

FLaCaTaCa Thread views: 2,528

Re: The cat is out of the bag...

Got kicked in the face for doing a nice thing. What a surprise!

FLaCaTaCa Thread views: 2,528

Re: The cat is out of the bag...

Posted by Ang&Rich

Buckles!!! I was just looking at your pic from the GTG at Applebees!!!

I'm going to make some scrapbook pages of the two GTGs we had in October - I'll post them for eveyone to see once they are done!

Changed my mind.

GoingNutty Thread views: 2,528

Re: The cat is out of the bag...

Posted by FLaCaTaCa

I just want to say that I sent everyone who felt 'out of the loop' an FM trying to explain myself generally. I hope it makes everyone feel better. It was not intentional and I am sure after reading you will all understand.

Out of curiousity! No hurt feelings here!

Ang!

buckles Thread views: 2,528

Re: The cat is out of the bag...

Posted by Ang&Rich

Buckles!!! I was just looking at your pic from the GTG at Applebees!!!

I'm going to make some scrapbook pages of the two GTGs we had in October - I'll post them for eveyone to see once they are done!

Yeah! That would be great. Thanks Ang!

DMcK Thread views: 2,528

Re: The cat is out of the bag...

Posted by FLaCaTaCa

I just want to say that I sent everyone who felt 'out of the loop' an FM trying to explain myself generally. I hope it makes everyone feel better. It was not intentional and I am sure after reading you will all understand.

I did not feel excluded at all and just want to say that I think it is terrible that people are getting worked up about Ang saying thank you and being genuinely touched about ppl doing something nice for her. That is all she appeared to be doing with this post. I think it was so nice of Stacy to try to organize and I am touched that someone would do that for another LIWer.

to Ang and Stacy

Ang&Rich Thread views: 2,528

Re: The cat is out of the bag...

Posted by DIJBH

Posted by FLaCaTaCa

I just want to say that I sent everyone who felt 'out of the loop' an FM trying to explain myself generally. I hope it makes everyone feel better. It was not intentional and I am sure after reading you will all understand.

I did not feel excluded at all and just want to say that I think it is terrible that people are getting worked up about Ang saying thank you and being genuinely touched about ppl doing something nice for her. That is all she appeared to be doing with this post. I think it was so nice of Stacy to try to organize and I am touched that someone would do that for another LIWer.

to Ang and Stacy

Awww - thank you so much for that!

DMcK Thread views: 2,528

Re: The cat is out of the bag...

Posted by Ang&Rich

Posted by DIJBH

Posted by FLaCaTaCa

I just want to say that I sent everyone who felt 'out of the loop' an FM trying to explain myself generally. I hope it makes everyone feel better. It was not intentional and I am sure after reading you will all understand.

I did not feel excluded at all and just want to say that I think it is terrible that people are getting worked up about Ang saying thank you and being genuinely touched about ppl doing something nice for her. That is all she appeared to be doing with this post. I think it was so nice of Stacy to try to organize and I am touched that someone would do that for another LIWer.

to Ang and Stacy

Awww - thank you so much for that!