The gown you fall in love with.........PICTURE :-)

amstellitelady Posted: Mar 16, 2005 01:08 PM

The gown you fall in love with.........PICTURE :-)

is over your budget of what u or parents (in my case) want to spend. Do you get over it and buy anyway or keep looking?

Me and FI r paying for the whole wedding. My parents are both out of work. They said they would buy my gown to contribute the little they can. The gown I fell in love with and really want is $500 over the limit they wanted to spend and this is before all alterations. I did tell them I would pay the difference if they say yes. They are coming with me to see it tonight.

would you do the same?

JP&EP Posted: Mar 16, 2005 01:11 PM

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If it is the gown I truly fall in love with, yes, I would pay the difference.

You can also see if maybe RK bridal, netbride, bridesave or other places like that give you a better price.

Dom n Nic Posted: Mar 16, 2005 01:11 PM

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Posted by amstellitelady

is over your budget of what u or parents (in my case) want to spend. Do you get over it and buy anyway or keep looking?

Me and FI r paying for the whole wedding. My parents are both out of work. They said they would buy my gown to contribute the little they can. The gown I fell in love with and really want is $500 over the limit they wanted to spend and this is before all alterations. I did tell them I would pay the difference if they say yes. They are coming with me to see it tonight.

would you do the same?

go for it!!!!!!!
if you love it
it is only an extra 500 bucks
if you were talking thousands i would say you would really have to think about it lol

shellnroc Posted: Mar 16, 2005 01:24 PM

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If you REALLY love it. I would definitely pay the difference.

Kiddo115 Posted: Mar 16, 2005 01:38 PM

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I found one thats more than 500 over.. but it's the only dress so far that I really felt 'home' in... sounds silly, but it's true. I'm honestly considering it.. but I'm still looking also

In your case.. PAY THE DIFFERENCE!! You love it?! Go for it!

Kerrycec Posted: Mar 16, 2005 01:46 PM

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I found my dream dress for only $650

PrincessConsuela Posted: Mar 16, 2005 02:06 PM

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i would pay the difference it is one thing you dont want to skimp on your wedding day.

LadyPrincess Posted: Mar 16, 2005 02:09 PM

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gownfind.com - contact phyllis & see if
she can get it for less or close to yr budget

kissy27 Posted: Mar 16, 2005 02:15 PM

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I would pay the difference...If it 'the dress' you can't pass it up no matter what the $$ is

amstellitelady Posted: Mar 16, 2005 02:24 PM

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thank you everyone so much for your input. you guys have made this real easy on me.

I've heard and seen those discount bridal sites, but to be honest I would be so nervous about getting my gown from there. I'm the type of person that if I don't feel 100% right about something I never go through with it, but i totally appreciate all the suggestions toward it.

oh man, these next 3 hours r gonna go sooooo slow

my appointment is at 5:30-I CAN'T WAIT

hmpena Posted: Mar 16, 2005 02:36 PM

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I would definitely pay the difference. I would also just send an email to gownfind. Phyllis gets back to you so quickly with a price quote. She may be able to get it for less and she caps her alterations at $150!

Good luck and take pictures!

cantwait2bewed Posted: Mar 16, 2005 02:39 PM

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my gown was 1800 dollars over budget. I got it anyway.

leighdvm Posted: Mar 16, 2005 02:58 PM

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Call netbride and give them the manufacturer and style number and they'll give you a quote. They are a reputable company and have gotten very good reviews here. And why not save some bucks???

beautyq115 Posted: Mar 16, 2005 04:58 PM

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Well I fell in love with a few at Macys that were like 2300...I didn't feel right about the price but I knew if this was the one than I had to have it...BUT I actually found a dress that is 'the one' and its under 1000....which sealed the deal for me...

Goldi1021 Posted: Mar 16, 2005 05:36 PM

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Yes I would assuming they were in agreement.

amstellitelady Posted: Mar 16, 2005 06:44 PM

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I'm back and I HAVE MY GOWN!!!

I just have to download and I'll have the gown on here tomorrow.

thanks to everyone for your support on this. when my parents saw me in it, they were all smiles. it will be tough, but they said they will swing it.

i gave them big

gNi1125 Posted: Mar 16, 2005 06:52 PM

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Posted by amstellitelady

I'm back and I HAVE MY GOWN!!!

I just have to download and I'll have the gown on here tomorrow.

thanks to everyone for your support on this. when my parents saw me in it, they were all smiles. it will be tough, but they said they will swing it.

i gave them big

That's awesome!!!! That was really seet of them!Congrats!!!

ElegantBride Posted: Mar 16, 2005 07:51 PM

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My motto is you pay for what you get. Certainly the dress should be better. If you love it go for it...if you can sacrifice the few extra bucks...that is only if you know that this is the dress is 'THE ONE'