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... The headache begins.....

chakrasdeosil Posted:

... The headache begins.....

So, my wedding is a year away. In my opinion, thats not far away. I've known my MOH since I was like thirteen (I'm 22 now) She's very helpful, dont get me wrong. She got me a great deal on a DJ/MC package along with a photo package. But on the other hand she can be very opinionated... She's one of those cut throat people, wanting things how she says because her way is best.
Now... I have a MU trial this sunday with Kelly from Glam Me Up. I live in the Bronx, and it will take me about an hour to get to her. No big deal to me!!! And I called my MOH last week to tell her about it and she was like yeah okay I'll go. Even at the middle of this week she was still down for it. Now she calls me like oh 10am is way too early, what is this appt for anyways? What kind of makeup does she use? when I said professional shes like oh yeah? so whats professional? And she should come to you cause she wants your business.... And the thing that got me was oh ur wedding is a year away, thats not important now, u got bigger things to worry about..... then she was like why dont we go BM shopping sunday afternoon? Cancel your appt you can do that later shes not the only professional makeup artist.....

Ugh!!!!!!!! I was on the phone totally livid!!!!! Like hey I love you to death but I'm the bride and you dont have to go, I just wanted to include you in things. Either way, I'm going to that darn trial! (I didnt tell her that though) I suppose I made it seem like I was going to wait till she was good and ready to go but no im sorry I dont want to wait and risk everyone being booked already. I'm sorry but makeup is important to me along with everything else. No detail is too minimal.....

Vent over, thanks for reading
ndeokinanan Posted:

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Awwwww just stand your ground
chakrasdeosil Posted:

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I hate being mean tho. this is y I went dress shopping alone!
ChristineNorah Posted:

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I'm sorry, maybe next time you should tell her how she is making you feel. Maybe she is unaware how she is coming off.
ddms7870 Posted:

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it wasn't nice of her to treat the make-up as minimal especially if you're excited to go! Enjoy your trial and maybe talk to her?

PeaceLoveWedding Posted:

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She'll come around. Have fun at your trial.
chakrasdeosil Posted:

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THanks!!! If you girls only knew.... She's used to dominating and I dont want nor need the confrontation. I'd rather go and do what I gotta do, if she finds out later then thats her issue cause she cant say she wasnt invited right?

chakrasdeosil Posted:

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btw, Ill post pics of the trial on Sunday... If I dont look like a clown
ChristineNorah Posted:

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I just noticed today is your 1 year mark! Congrats!!

linda_art Posted:

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Hugs and congrats on having patients for her. You ever ask yourself why you allow her to speak to you that way??? My MOH, ugh..., has been my friend for 15yrs and all this wedding stuff made me realize that maybe 15 yrs ago she was a good friend to have around, but now... not so much.

chakrasdeosil Posted:

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She's rough around the edges and honestly she means well, but her personality always wants to be in the driver's seat and thats not happening!!!! (putting my foot down) I think that it became a hassle to go with me or it didnt fit into her schedule cause something came up and she was trying to convince me to hold off on it, but I been looking forward to this all week, so tough cookies
pixietina Posted:

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Awww bronx buddy I totally feel your pain! Maybe we have the same MOH! Do you and ignore her. They don't understand how many times we have to go out and drive to long island either.
chakrasdeosil Posted:

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Posted by pixietina

Awww bronx buddy I totally feel your pain! Maybe we have the same MOH! Do you and ignore her. They don't understand how many times we have to go out and drive to long island either.



Yeah... Seeing Kelly an hour away is a sacrifice but well worth it. Bronx buddy i love that lol. I live on Parkchester, So u can imagine lol
pixietina Posted:

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Posted by chakrasdeosil


Posted by pixietina

Awww bronx buddy I totally feel your pain! Maybe we have the same MOH! Do you and ignore her. They don't understand how many times we have to go out and drive to long island either.



Yeah... Seeing Kelly an hour away is a sacrifice but well worth it. Bronx buddy i love that lol. I live on Parkchester, So u can imagine lol



I'm in bedford park myself. Let's not forget the tolls!
chakrasdeosil Posted:

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Ahhh I forgot that... I'll just hope that my GPS doesnt send me to Staten Island....

gmcamp Posted:

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Don't worry about the best friend. Maybe she should should have been co-MOH to have to listen to someone else's opinions (in addition to yours, of course).

For your next vendor's appt, I'd say to let her know about it AFTER you go. If she says something about it, you can just tell her that you didn't want to bother her to travel/wake up early/etc...if she presses the issue, maybe consider talking to her about the makeup trial incident. I mean, you might want to have a sit-down with her anyway.

Has she gotten married yet? I can't imagine the bridezilla she'll be!

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