correction-- just my mother... my dad has been good through all this planning stuf..
durring the day i didnt answer the phone and 2 dj companies called about my inquiry for a mc(aready am getting a dj for free)... so fiance drops me home and mom goes ' you got two messages'... 'yes i know ill call them back tomorow'.. 'you know you dont need an mc, your sister jane had a dj who did everything, cant your dj do everything?'.. then she proceeds to tell me 'an mc might be 'worthless' sometimes people dont want to go on the dance floor and it would be a complete waste of money'....
AAAHEM... I want an MC primarily for my introductions,first dance. cake cutting, bouqet toss... what does she have to complain about.. its not like im asking her for any extra money, shes not paying for the whole reception..
UGHHHHH... fiance REALLY liked the mc at the last wedding we were at.. our friend is doing the dj'ing for free and we thought since were already saving money why dont we hire an MC and make it a little less work for our friend...
prncssrachel
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Poop on moms. Mine won't even talk about planning for my wedding yet. She says it's too early to think about. W T F? So here's a big ol for you! Do what you want, she'll pipe down after a while
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rachael--- i dont tell her things until after i book them now.. didnt tell her about photo and video till the contract was signed..
favors and such will be bought then told later...
she had her wedding...32 years ago, now its my wedding and it will be my way
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my mom adds her 2 cents on EVERYTHING just like that. i find it very difficult to deal with at times, but i know she just 'means well' - right!?
butterfly20
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rachel-- how have you been??? remember my post about fiances family last night... excluding his family on fourth of july?? the situation got worse
prncssrachel
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Good for you! Show her who's boss!
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really? how so? I'm so sorry!
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miro- i think my my mom feels guilty or something.. she didnt help my sister with ANY planning whatsoever for her wedding cause my grandmother was sick at that time(and probably will be for my wedding too.. but thats another story)... anyways I think she's trying to overcompensate for not doing anything then..
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well his mother spoke to his aunt.. asked her what was up... and she goes ' im allowed to invite whoever i want, its not like its christmas'... now this is VERY frustrating cause the other aunt's annoying family use to not get invited and mikes family was always invited.. so his mother talked with his father, and father doesnt care to invite the aunt & uncle over at all the way she is acting, but his mom use to talk to her every day so she doesnt want to leave things this way... mike has 'grown appart' from that aunt and uncle and said that we dont have to have her as an eucharistic minister for our wedding(one less corsage, 5 x 7 pic, and frame ) to give out...
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Sorry to hear that you are having a hard time Hang in there and do what makes you happy...its your day!!
prncssrachel
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Geez, I'm sorry to hear that! Family can be the source of too much frustration sometimes! As I always say, poop on them
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soooo long story short, mike and I save ourselves like $50... but feel bad, his parents did nothing wrong and they had o sit home on july 4th..meanwhile the evil family gets invited over WHO (the aunt who is jealous of my FI, the cousin who has a beer drinking problem, the other cousin who has 'issues' and whom mike is dead to, and the other cousin who is on ridalin)... needless to say.. those 3 are not being allowed guests(saving me an extra $300..
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Well, there ya go. We have some issues in our family too, but we are all so close that it just bounces back and forth where as some people ignore eachother. Oh well, can't change people
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well... i told mike that is fine cause his birthday isnt a big holiday... so we dont have to invite them over for that... we can have it with just the other side of the family.. however he feels bad about his grandparents on this side... so im thinking we can have them over for dinner on another night... without the rest of that family... it will saveALOT of money cause the evil family of 5 eats like they are 20... which is very $$$
prncssrachel
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sounds like my family!
butterfly20
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nope we cant change people... but we can always go on here to vent and come up with other options...
well from all this I learn, at least my family arent the only ones who do this stuff..
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There's always a few in every family.
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rachael- i was SOOOOO excited over my new lenox vase(engagement gift from good side of family ) that i went out and picked up a dozen roses in various colors.. it looks SOOO pretty
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Nice! My mother BITCHES when we even talk about using something we got as an engagement gift. She claims it's only for AFTER the wedding. Little does she know what we have in our apartment in MA
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lol... well im using 2 vases... i though his mother would have a heart attack.... on her side they only display stuff.... you'd never dare think of putting flowers in lenox and i have a lenox oval dish... from day one it became a candy dish always filled with candy..
are you going to marni's house gtg... on the NWR board?
