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The most important question to ask before getting married?

the future mrs m Posted:

The most important question to ask before getting married?

What do you think is the most important
question(s) to ask before getting married?
faithandkevin Posted:

Re: The most important question to ask before getting married?

Will you marry me?

the future mrs m Posted:

Re: The most important question to ask before getting married?

lololol... i meant more along the lines of beliefs, maybe money, career, children, how you will get through tough times, etc... you are so funny miss faith!
faithandkevin Posted:

Re: The most important question to ask before getting married?

Oooohhhh!!

What religion will we raise our children (interfaith couples)?
How will we handle finances (combine money, budgeting)?
portjeffbride Posted:

Re: The most important question to ask before getting married?

how many kids?

AeroJenn Posted:

Re: The most important question to ask before getting married?

I dont think theres one most important question. I believe that before marriage theres a bunch of questions that need to be discussed and are vital to a healthy relationship.
Here are a few of mine:

do you want children?
What type of marriage do you envision as far as husband/wife roles?
Where do you want to live?
What are your religious beliefs?
What religion do you want to bring up the kids?
What are your career goals?

and....You need to make it clear what comes first -- family or career. Even though this seems like a 'duh' question, it isnt. FH and I had been dating for over 3 years when it finally came out that at times, his career might have to come first.
the future mrs m Posted:

Re: The most important question to ask before getting married?

we've answered all of these. just wondering if there were anymore... :)

KickinDandelions Posted:

Re: The most important question to ask before getting married?

Here are a couple that FH and I discussed...

How are we going to handle our finances after we're married?

If we are opening a joint account, how much goes into it each month/year? Are we putting in a % of our salary or equal amounts?


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