The Nerve of some people!

I am so angry at someone who I was such good freinds with since I was 12 years old! My sister was TTC for 3 years and had a lot of problems getting pregnant, and is now expecting her first baby. ( She goes tomorrow to see the heart beat.) Anyway, this one person in particular said to me, since she took so long, you should get your 'a$$' to the doctor. Hello?! I am not the one with the problem, my sisters case was unexplained and it was nothing genetic. We have not been officially TTC for too long, and why has my sex life become such public information? It gets me mad, I work with the public and they are always asking me if I am pregnant yet, and now this!? Why the hell is it anyones business anyway?! I cannot believe people! I am so angry!

People really have no clue - I don't understand how they feel that they can just say anything!

People have ZEROOOOO common sense when it comes to asking people if they are trying or if they are pregnant. They don't know if someone is having problems or is just waiting. People should just NOT assume that because you are married that children come automatically.

I might sound bitter but...

Thankfully this hasn't fully happened to me yet except by my best friend who, after going to our friends' daughter's baby naming said to me, 'So when are you going to get the itch?' My answer was that I sort of have it already. I wasn't ready to tell her that I was really trying with the whole OPT sticks and everything.

I didn't know exactly when she started trying and she now has two beautiful boys. At some time I am sure I will tell her that I am doing the whole bit but for now I just want her to think we are at the whatever happens, happens stage.

Thanks for letting me vent.

I am married 5 years! For **Personal** reasons DH and I still aren't TTC.
We hope by the summer! I hope by July/Aug. I can be posting on this board a lot more and asking for you ladies to be send **baby dust**.
Anyway, back to the 5 years..'5 years, and no kids?' thats what I hear from coworkers and friends that I have been 'reunited' with. If I wanted people to know the reasons, I would tell them!

Some people are just friggin insensitive and dont realize the stupid things they say!!!