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The stress is getting to me!!!!!(VENT)

alixgirl Posted:

The stress is getting to me!!!!!(VENT)

He wanted to help with the invites so we put them together and I seperated the A list from the B list. But he took both lists to the post office and mailed them all. So now we have sent out invites for 230 and the hall only holds 200. I am so stressed out. Yesterday, I go the bridal salon with 4 of my BMs and they ordered the wrong dresses for my maid and matron of honor and then they tried to blame it on me. I really loved planning my wedding but I think these last couple of weeks might put me over the edge.
julz33 Posted:

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I think you will be fine with the invites. Out of 230 people 30 will say NO! Don't worry about that.

What are you going to do about the dresses?
RedHead Posted:

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I hate those days when nothing you do is right!
Don't worry it will pass
alixgirl Posted:

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Posted by julz33

I think you will be fine with the invites. Out of 230 people 30 will say NO! Don't worry about that.

What are you going to do about the dresses?



After, I argued with them they said that they will call the company tomorrow and put a rush on the dresses. Then they will call me and let me know when they will be in. Thank God I went there yesterday. There was a Bride there that was freaking out because they forgot to order one of her BM dresses and her wedding is next week.
nferrandi Posted:

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I wouldn't worry about the invites too much. They say that 20% of your invites reply 'no' for one reason or another, which will leave you at 184. As for the dresses, I'm not sure what to say. Hopefully they can fix their mistake PRONTO!
Shea Posted:

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oh dont worry - i am sure atlest 30 people will not show

LImom Posted:

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The 20% rule worked in our case too. 241 guests were invited, and 191 responded they would come. 7 didn't show up even after they said they would. Don't worry.

dino1109 Posted:

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I have to say the stress is getting to me too! But I have on ly 12 days left!!! And it has jsut really started hitting me over the last week or so and mostly today. I have hardly been on here at all- not sure if anyone has missed me-but today was supposed to be my final planning and putting together things day...but Its not- still have some stuff to do-too much stuff to do!! I have been crying almost all day...
But you should be calm- you definitely should not have a problem about invites- we actually invited about 288 and only 205 or so are coming...
I'll keep you in my thoughts that the dresses work out!
alixgirl Posted:

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Boy that makes me feel better! Thanks everyone. I've been having visions of guests having to sit in folding chairs because we are out of room.
And Dino you're almost there and your day will be beautiful!

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