The unhappy FH

So i was telling FH last night how I am BOTW and what my first question was. Started telling him my grand eternal 3 way idea. Finished up the story and expected a laugh......dead silence. He was not amused. Was a little put off that I'm already planning to remarry. Told him he's sending me to an early grave so I'll be gone first and he'll be the one to remarry. Told him I'd want him to live out the rest of his life happy and that he should get remarried if the right person were to come along. Dead silence once again. He turned to me and with dead serious face said that if I remarried he'd haunt me til death. So yeah, remarriage is definitely out if god forbid anything were to happen to him. Asked him if he'd rest easier if I was a **** and he said that would be fine.

Men.

At a family party a couple of my aunts were talking about that with their husbands and all of my uncles said they would remarry and they got all in a huff about it... Until I reminded them that they'd all be a bunch of old cougars and be hitting the bars for 25 year olds if they were ever single again.

Me and FH have both said that we would be open to the idea of remarrying if we lost the other one. Life is too short to spend alone.

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Posted by abrennan01

At a family party a couple of my aunts were talking about that with their husbands and all of my uncles said they would remarry and they got all in a huff about it... Until I reminded them that they'd all be a bunch of old cougars and be hitting the bars for 25 year olds if they were ever single again.

Me and FH have both said that we would be open to the idea of remarrying if we lost the other one. Life is too short to spend alone.

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This is what i tried to express to FH......why be alone for the rest of your life? Said I'm the one, I'm it and he wouldn't be the same without me. Love him.

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Posted by amandah75

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Posted by abrennan01

At a family party a couple of my aunts were talking about that with their husbands and all of my uncles said they would remarry and they got all in a huff about it... Until I reminded them that they'd all be a bunch of old cougars and be hitting the bars for 25 year olds if they were ever single again.

Me and FH have both said that we would be open to the idea of remarrying if we lost the other one. Life is too short to spend alone.

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This is what i tried to express to FH......why be alone for the rest of your life? Said I'm the one, I'm it and he wouldn't be the same without me. Love him.

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Well at least he is trying to stay positive with all the morbid talk and wants you to be it!!!!

My FH always tries to make jokes saying that he will die first and then i will be off with lots of boyfriends and be the town cougar tramp

I agree life is too short to spend alone. I would never want FH to be all alone.

I am a nurse in a nursing home, it's like 85% widowed women (we do live longer).

This one man had re-married after his first wife died. He told me while he loved his wife now, his first was the light of his life and no woman will ever fill her shoes. It was really sweet but also sad. I know that no woman will ever fill my shoes for FH and the same for him, but I still wouldn't want to be alone.

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Posted by stinenandy2010

you said it right...men!

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so true!!!