The wedding guest from hell

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You could always pull her aside and say the photographer did take pictures of her, but he was too embarassed to print them...lol! That's horrible of her. She's apparently selfish in both conditions: drunk & sober!

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Goodness, she is awful !!!!!
Don't let her ruin the memory of your wonderful wedding!!!! She was a jerk, and there's nothing you can do about that. But what you can do is ignore her behavior (as hard as it may be) and try to put it out of your mind.

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I fit makes you feel any better, here is a similar story. I was a BM in a friends wedding three years ago. We had another friend (also a BM) who had a habit of getting trashed and throwing herself at at least one guy. She always had to hook up. It was gross. Well the bride was worried about this, so I did what I could to reign in the offending friend. Not only did she go home with one of the groomsmen, she showed up at the hotel where EVERYONE stayed (wedding was there, too) and walked through the lovely brunch that the groom's parents had arranged while all of the older relatives were eating, including the groom's parents, the following morning. I didn't realize this when I went down for brunch, although I knew that she had gone and returned in the morning. Well, a bunch of us went over to the groom's parents at which point Mrs. Groom's Mom said loudly 'Which one of you girls was walking around in her dress at 8 a.m.' The look of horror on our faces was enought to let everyone know what had gone on. Apparently they didn't realize why she was walking around in her dress until they saw the looks on our faces. So not only did this 'friend' get drunk and throw herself at one of the GM, embarassing the bride in front of the younger crowd, she embarrased her in front of the in-laws as well.

My point - at the time, it was the talk of the town. Now, it is hardly mentioned, we don't speak to this crazy girl anymore and I am not even sure if the GM remembers her. People will talk about it and then forget it. It is not the only thing that people will remember from your wedding. Try not to worry about it too much. I know that is hard. I watched my friend agonoize over the same issues. I am sorry you have to go through this. Luckily, she is not in any pictures or in the video!

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What a jerk. Why do you even owe her an explanation? She is not the center of attention. I'm glad she is not in any of the pictures. You don't need that memory around...

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If you do have a video you should show her and her boyfriend. Perhaps she will see how horrible she looked but most likely she will not. Just be cordial and do not invite her over much. Your friend will grow tired of her soon, I am sure.

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sounds to me like you should steer clear of this girl as much as possible.
what a pig.

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OMG~ I can't believe her selfishness continues. Even though I had nothing to do with your wedding, I am dying to tell her why she wasn't in the pictures but insure her that she was a 'main attraction' at the wedding and that how she acted will NEVER be forgotten by you or your guests. How RUDE!

As others said before, please don't let her ruin the memory of your wedding. What you and your DH have is so special that no one can ever take it away.

Continued Happiness on your new marriage!

Kelly